Merry Christmas, Gentlemen. How to stop failing *as much* at life and women

*Obligatory "Not All Men" covers this post. I won't be coddling anyone crying about generalizations in the comments. If it don't apply, let it fly.

I can appreciate the nostalgic repurposed tones of the illfated Braincels here in /r/AllPillDebate ... complete with the uber cringe males that force themselves to fit in.

I promise you, I understand you. Everyone wants to belong in a way and its not your fault you've been programmed to depend on narratives meant to make you tools and not real people.

I post this here because Head Pick-Me in Charge claims I'm too hostile as a woman over at /r/PurplePillDebate 😂

A sub that demonizes women with zero room for nuance and strategy. At least you let me talk so here is my thank you.

One thing I can appreciate about YOUR kind is you may be bitchy but some of you listen.

To the points:

• Blaming feminism is a cop out. You are free to cop out. But do it in front of women you're interested in, you cockblock yourself. Why? No matter how correct you think you are, you present as an impediment to someones autonomy. Lots of these girls arent even deep in feminism. You just sound easily groomed by men who make money off you.

• It is true that some of you have unchangeable, immutable traits that put you in a disadvatage in a system you support. Is it high IQ to galvanize gorgeous, tall, rich powerful Chad's system just because they tell you your penis makes you entitled and better than women? Its not. I'm not a man so be intelligent and model after sexually successful men with YOUR phenotype. YOUR limitations.

Some of you hate women so I am happy you suffer but the guys that are just frustrated at the unfairness, trust me as someone who is the antithesis of the beauty standard and thriving. People are malleable. Its not about getting the most lukewarm interested people. Its about pulling real fans of how you exist, authentically.

I myself have simped hard for some questionable looking characters but that's because male ingenuity in the properly motivated male is pure sex, untouched. You are not a woman, your poverty fapping sessions cannot touch that type of lust.

• The reason I hold no sympathy for manlets, framecels, dicklets and the like is because of the natural order. 100% of the content all strugglers create hating on women fail to realize immutable traits in WOMEN like dark skin, psychological and hormonal illnesses that hard set weight issues, poverty, abuse, and lack of protection. I hold no sympathy but I understand. The way some of you carry on about how we would "never understand what its like to be a man" while we get treated worse than men is an ancient meme. We were groomed to center you then learn to wrangle you for our safety and survival. I promise you you are not as complex as most of you think

What does that mean, in the spirit of gift giving?

It means that the day you let your dream of living like Chad die is the day you make it possible to find female counterparts that actually get you.

Stop talking women out of wanting to be around you or sex. Everyone has insecurities but manospherians especially show up parroting nonsense by rote. As a woman talked out of connecting and who works with women who tried, you are literally cockblocking yourselves. Stop

• *Everything you are mad at women about comes from the actions of men. Cry bias all you want but males are the limiting factor to which society abides. Your poor emotional regulation, manufactured self esteem, rampant abuse as a class has created the equal and opposite reactions. If you are smart, you see this, adapt yourself, and learn to vet and operate like women had to. Learn to be a pleasure to be around. Be emotionally intelligent. Do you know how many broke, fake empathetic men get further than most of u? And the real empathetic ones are a hot commodity

• Stop basing your "self improvement" on getting sex. Base it on self love and dignity. If you have nome, fake it til you make it. The mind is ridiculously pliable, thats why yall are such easy cash cows. Imagine a day you like yourself instead of repeating the mantras of broken men who hate men and hate you. Imagine liking yourself

It makes being wanted by a woman that much more intoxicating and validating. Because you can believe her. Because you can see the good in you

• Stop crying "feminism", especially if you're in the west. Ya'll are worshipping ideologies you do not even follow abroad and it just makes you look like we should call the police. Stop harrassing normal women about feminist theories. Most of us are just trying to live JUST LIKE YOU. Most of us want reciprocal love and pleasure. We want to make you happy but when you pull your manosphere bs, you come across as men who cannot think for yourself

If you would not like the conditions you demand from us, why are you asking us to do it? By virtue of being illogical, you created a culture where being a wife and mother sounds like an L until a certain tax bracket.

Go back to being people. Stop letting the unfuckables call you a simp and throw you off. They buy "company" so pragmatic women will do the chore and lie to them about their desirability

You come across like you dont have sense or feelings but I worked with too many of you to buy that really.

I'm sure I have more but this was my good deed for the year. I don't work for you, I work for women.

The more of you that are healthy and happy, the more of us are safe

One more thing. "Red Pill" was modeled after the hyperaggro, hypersexuality of disenfranchised men who major cope was to dehumanize us women DESPITE us rescuing them from that same treatment back in history. The kind that are gravitating to Red Pill now are the failed, fatherless, swagless outcomes of the Red Pill of yesteryear.

Many of you have advantages they dont. Get smarter about strategy. Befriend based women you arent trying to f. These men cant help you. We know by their skyrocketing s**e rate and third world, ass buying copes.

Black pill, last I checked past the many inexperienced but book smart participants are an exercise in nihilism most of u are not equipped to consume.

If you want to be happy, take a stats class, get therapy, accept what you cant change, and outperform other males where you can. Because that is the natural order

Cry about hypergamy? You are unfit..hypergamy gives you your reason to live

Depression, mental disorders, loneliness - ALL valid and treatable

Failing in perpetuity and blaming women? Moronic.

I am happy to respond to any sincere questions or lamentations. I will ignore all cries about generalizations because god knows your lot doesnt give af when complaining about women as if we are all teens from Sweden.

I wish you a Merry Christmas and trust that the tiny minority of you who cared enough to recieve this post in the spirit it was written will find your way

To those of you who found this "too hostile" since this app is hypersensitive once its a woman being direct, tough. Avoid based women

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