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Need help with preferences (am a female)

September 12, 2022
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Hi, I'm a female but I don't believe any of that feminist crap or the twitter SJWs who think you're a nazi if you question them at all. Anyway, I have a bit of a sensitive problem. I've been with alphas and betas but for some reason I seem to be way more into beta guys, maybe even omega or gamma guys (I'm not super familiar with all the types). Whenever I'm fantasizing about guys it's always the guy who would be the runt of the litter in a wolf pack or maybe one of the followers, not the alpha. Picture the nerdy guy with glasses who gets bullied and that's my type.

Like my top crushes would be guys like Jughead from Riverdale, John Doyle (sorry John Doyle fans but he is kind of beta looking), John Oliver even though his politics are straight garbage, Adam Scott, Bo Burnham, Chris Ray Gun (again, if he closes his mouth about politics), Bill Hader, iDubbbz, iNabber, Milo Thatch from Atlantis the lost empire, etc.

However, I'm not that into guys that would be traditionally considered alpha/high status like The Rock, George Clooney, Jordan Peterson, Clint Eastwood, Brad Pitt, Bruce Willis, Ryan Gosling, Daniel Craig, Morgan Wallen, Archie from Riverdale, Channing Tatum, etc. I will say, Chris Hemsworth is ok.

The only alpha guy I can actually get turned on by is Hasan Piker (again, if he closes his mouth) and I have no idea why.

And then when it comes to sex, I can get turned on when I'm with a beta but I can't with an alpha, even after hours of trying. Dating has been really hard. I've stopped trying to date alphas because I don't want to string them along.

Any advice? I don't know what's wrong with me. This can't be good for my bloodline if the only guy I want to have children with is a beta but I also don't want to have a husband who doesn't excite me at all. And I don't have the sexual market place value to bag Hasan and I doubt he'd be ok with being gagged the entire time.

Maybe I'm a beta girl and I should just give up and breed with a beta. I'm not exactly a catch but I do well enough to have had some relationships and hookups. I'd say I'm a bit below average sexual market place value. Anyway, any advice would be much appreciated. If it's to close my legs, I get it (lmao) but that ship has already sailed.

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Title Need help with preferences (am a female)
Author Optimistprime777
Upvotes 4
Comments 50
Date September 12, 2022 3:44 AM UTC (2 months ago)
Subreddit /r/AllPillDebate
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[–]ChazinGreatnezz 19 points20 points  (6 children) | Copy Link

I can’t figure out if you’re trolling or 14

[–]TheOffice_Account 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

if you’re trolling or 14

Porque no los dos

[–]catniagara 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

r/menwritingwomen is the first thing that came to mind lol

[–]Optimistprime777[S] 0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy Link

I'm not trolling or 14. I'm a grown woman who is lost in life. :(

[–]ChazinGreatnezz 1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

You’re a chronically online

[–]Optimistprime777[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

That's probably truuu

[–]ChazinGreatnezz 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Go outside and don’t make your personality the internet and twitch streamers

[–]carpetfoodie 3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

🧢

[–]Peacesquad 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Fr she’s a troll lmao

[–]Play_MutedDark Red Pill 4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

some of you are really weird, touch grass omfg

[–]no_bling_just_dingWhitePill (self aware MSTOW) 3 points4 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

troll alarm

if this is real: just go on activities with men idk

[–]Optimistprime777[S] 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

I'm not trolling jeez. I'm just worried about my future kids having bad genes. :(

[–]no_bling_just_dingWhitePill (self aware MSTOW) 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

well most men aren't alphas by definition, so if genetic health is what you're on about you'd be more pressed to check if they have a family history of cancer, dementia and the like.

[–]Optimistprime777[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Ok that makes sense.

[–]HodgekinWhitePill 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Hmmm. Are you taking the birth control pill?

[–]rurunoa 2 points3 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

aint no way this isnt a troll post💀💀💀also hasanabi is literally a beta by RP definition he dated a pornstar before and supports a lot of feminist and liberal values

[–]Optimistprime777[S] 0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy Link

What's an RP definition??? I swear I'm not trolling. I feel scared for my kids is all. And damn I thought Hasan was an alpha. So I guess I'm completely allergic to alphas huh.

[–]rurunoa 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

it means redpill definition. and u have kids??

[–]Optimistprime777[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Ah I c. And no but I'm worried because I want kids with good genetics.

[–]rurunoa 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

genetics can skip generations, if youre worried about genetics then my honest advice is not to have kids

[–]EnteFetz 2 points3 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

I don't really understand where the problem is. If you are actually into betas then go and have fun with them. You will have it very easy to get their attention, because they don't have many options. Most of them will be very loyal. You can have a fantastic life if you are actually attracted to betas. Just make sure that you also have daughters because your sons could turn out to be incels.

[–]Optimistprime777[S] 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

Oh thanks. I'm just worried about my genes for the reason you mentioned. Not that I hate incels, I just don't want to toss them into a cruel world. Any tips on how to create daughters?

[–]EnteFetz 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

There is "In vitro fertilization" after which you can choose which egg cells get implanted back into you, but in most countries it is illegal to determine the gender before implantation.

Otherwise there is not much you can do. Appart from aborting if it is a boy. Nowdays the gender can be determined very early on and you can choose to abort then.

[–]Optimistprime777[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Ah. That's tough because I don't believe in abortion. I guess I just have to pray.

[–]catniagara 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

“Most of them will be very loyal” 😂

Not in my experience. “alphas” are out there dating. “betas” (lol @ the Brave New World analogies) are out here trading information on how to treat women like garbage, disrespect, sleep with and dump them. I will never be fooled by their sob stories again after reading their “hopes and dreams” on rp and pill subs.

[–]Acrobatic_Dress_39881 points [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link

I don't know what's wrong with me.

Everything.

[–]Optimistprime777[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

:((((((

[–]SmarmyPapsmears 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

I dont see the problem. You know you're below average smv, so date a guy who is below average

[–]Optimistprime777[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

That's fair.

[–]Antisocial_NihilistRedPill 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

There are some women who do prefer dating Beta males, because they enjoy having power over the relationship and the security that its very unlikely thier man will leave them or cheat. But these women are kinda rare.

Let's say a 7/10 woman is dating a 10/10 Chad. He will hold pretty much all the power in the relationship, because he can leave at any time for a more attractive or younger woman. Some women really don't like that power dynamic... so they date men who are at thier level or maybe just a notch or 2 lower.

I happen to know a few women who are like that. But again they are rare.

[–]Optimistprime777[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Hmm interesting. Honestly I could deal with that power dynamic if it leads to better genes but... Yeah... I've thought about bpd. It's possible I have it.

[–]bluingmyself 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Alpha is, by definition, whoever manages fucks you first. Never mind whether you find them appealing or not. If women knew themselves as much as they think, these pill debates wouldn't exist.

But if partners perfectly good for you don't arouse you... I mean. You basically have the female equivalent of erectile disfunction. That's above reddit, and I bet even most therapist's paygrade to solve because society (or even feminism) hasn't even recognized it yet; it instead gaslights us into thinking this is somehow also a men's problem.

If it's to close my legs, I get it (lmao) but that ship has already sailed.

If you're set in your ways I'd genuinely advice you to keep carrying on, no point having each foot in a different boat. Worst case scenario, there's always a forrest gump. Besides we need more volunteers for the hook up experiment we'll probably end up calling this decade.

[–]Optimistprime777[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I don't get what you were saying at the end. But I don't have complete "erectile" dysfunction. The betas can get me turned on but not the high status men. Do you think I need to see a doctor all the same? Also I don't know. Can a nerd with no muscles and bad social skills really be an alpha if he fucks me first? That's confusing. You've given me something to think about though. Ty.

[–]IHateNormis 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

Betas are usually more intelligent and that is better for your “bloodline”.

Also, you say you like betas but would you like 5’2” bald Indian janitors?

[–]Optimistprime777[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Ok fair. Nah not really. It's more a specific type that lines up with beta most of the time (nerdy skinny guys with glasses) but I have crushes outside of that without much rhyme or reason. Just pretty much never alphas.

[–]IHateNormis 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Why wouldn’t you like a skinny 5’2” bald Indian janitor that wears glasses?

[–]Peacesquad 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

Trolling?

[–]Optimistprime777[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

No I just don't like alphas but I wish I did for the sake of my future kids. :(

[–]Peacesquad 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Why don’t you?

[–]Glad-Discount-4761 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

I don't know if you are being real.

I guess you may want to be with man and be couple like this.

https://youtube.com/c/TheHerbertsYT

Or this average looking couple https://www.instagram.com/reel/ChWjwNUDO7M/?igshid=MDJmNzVkMjY=

No one cares what type of man you likes. Just go to gym and take care of face(skincare) and your work or hobbies and in that way you will some options of man.Choose good man .You will do fine.Just do it now because it gets harder when you age.Thats mistake I did.

[–]Optimistprime777[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Thanks. Those couples seem attractive but maybe my standards are too low. I will try to follow your advice.

[–]Glad-Discount-4761 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Those couples seem attractive but maybe my standards are too low. I

They are.It is about attitude.Just see how they act and what they do

Even that couple in insta, people would think they wouldn't be successful in relationship as they are not good looking but they already got healthy relationship.

[–]kokorwqac 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

if you like nerdy guys just go for it

[–]Optimistprime777[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Ty I'm just concerned but ty

[–]DrBLEH 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Here come the dm's

[–]Optimistprime777[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Lmao

[–]RatDontPanicAverage Unfrustrated Chump 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Wow if this was written by a dude about women nobody would be calling it a troll post. Sorry for the distrust OP, around here we expect women to fall in a tiny stereotypical box and cheap made-in-China troll alarms tend to go off at women who can't fit into that.

[–]catniagara 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I mean, my buddy is into fat chicks, so he dates fat chicks. And he’s happy.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

As much as I have issue with modern feminism I don't think the best way to appeal to a good man is to dunk feminism as a whole. Yes some men who blatantly hate feminism will date you but do honestly want a men like that though. You should remain skeptical for feminism but I don't have issues with them raising their concerns about how society treats them.

[–]SaltyGeekyLifter 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Troll. And a leftist troll at that.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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