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no sex until marriage...after kids and in your 40s

August 23, 2022
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[–]MasonSub4BlackPill 13 points14 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

The sad part is there are going to be men who would simp for such a woman

[–]shreyastalpade 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Fact bruh

[–]Wide-Illustrator2906 4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

If she would have did this 20 years ago she would've Bern married by now and the "waiting for marriage " thing is only for certain guys.

[–]nothatyoucare 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Almost no one waits until marriage. The whole abstinence only until marriage stuff needs to go, it especially needs to get out of sex ed in schools.

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

It's evolving, just backwards.

[–]nothatyoucare 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Here's the thing lady. You're asking a lot more than the equivalent woman is. The question is... are you offering a lot more than the equivalent woman? If you're going to make a man wait until marriage are you going to make any pledges that you won't allow a dead bedroom to happen, that you'll be adventurous in bed and open to the man's fantasies?

[–]Eyesofmalice 2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

This proves nothing. Some individuals are crazy. Like what's the point of this post? (Genuine question)

[–]Fit-Faithlessness149[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Never said it had to prove anything. It's just an extreme case of weirdness that I found interesting and I knew some others on here would. I guess you could look at it as an extreme case of alpha fucks and beta bucks.

[–]RStonePTRedPill 4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

having them in her early 30s likely means one night stands or FWB because she couldn't/didn't lock a man down early.

Forget all the low hanging fruit, there's a reason she was single in her 30s, chances are that reason is why you don't want to wife her up now

[–]Fit-Faithlessness149[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

The more I think about it, the more it seems that the children might be invitro (hence twins which are more likely from invitro fertilization). It would make sense if she couldn't find a husband by 34. Imagine...she might very well be a "virgin". That would be commendable if true.

[–]hari_hbp 4 points5 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Why you gotta spread negativity like that, bruh?

Let her live her life. You don't have to get with her. Some christian dude will. If not, she'll happily live as single mom with her kids. Why shame her when you can just ignore her?

[–]DreJ-X 2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

No, ppl need to see it so they will see there are women with such an entittlement and beahviour. I wouldnt have believed in something like this if i hadnt seen it with my eyes

[–]hari_hbp 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Okay. Nobody is saying people can't show this and go "well, that's interesting". I simply asking why people add to the negativity? You can comment on it and easily ignore it. Why bash her for her choices when they have no effect on you or any smart guy who'll ignore this woman should she come up on their dating app?

[–]rurunoa 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

LOL

[–]IHateNormis 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Does not practice what they preach

[–]SwimmingTheme3736 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

There is nothing wrong with setting personal standards for yourself.

No one has to date her if they do not want to.

[–]Nihi1986 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Well, this is like the whereareallthegoodmen stuff and I think it's not going to be very popular here...

Anyway, she probably has been used by the father of her children and then found out the dating scene for single mums.

All the single moms that I know, sadly and unfairly have been used at least once. With 'used' I mean that they dated someone who didn't want an LTR eventhough they went on dates and everything seemed normal, and the reason were the kids. This is always when dating men who have no kids, btw.

This is also the kind of profile addition which narrows the market looking for a specific kind of men. She's looking for the 'beta' now. And no, she won't wait until marriage for sex if she finds a man that she's physically attracted to. I wish her best luck, though.

[–]BoogersAndSugar 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Personally, I wouldn't trust her for anything serious. Not taking any chances that she could be settling for me.

[–]Admirable_Bee_8714 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Never Married ......

have twin 14 year old boys

No sex before marriage

LOL. The sheer level of entitlement in that profile is insane.

[–]Fit-Faithlessness149[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I don't think of it as entitlement. I think it's just delusional.

[–]cryptothrow2 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

She'll do you if she likes you enough. These are barriers for those who respect them only. An asshole filter

[–]DreJ-X 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Are women seriously going in old sites with bios like this? Damn...

Btw looks like now this will turn into somthing like whereallthegoodmenare

[–]Fit-Faithlessness149[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

It would be the equivalent of a man saying something like "no dates or friendship until we fuck"

[–]lostwanderer28 2 points3 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

Well, it sounds contradictory but we cannot know what she has been through.

With all the "you need to have sex otherwise you failed your life and are a looser" that is going rampant within friends circles, TV shows, movies and social media it is quite possible that she fell into that mindwashing and found out later that her faith was closer to the truth than what her shallow friends, TV shows, movies and social media told her.

[–]edgyny 3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Idk I guess she had her kids at 34. She could have been in a relationship she expected to lead to marriage and it fell apart and so she's being more strict now that she's post-reproductive and all men can offer her is marriage.

Or possibly she could have had health issues and had to go IVF with a sperm donor.

Or maybe she's one of those types who "saves" frozen IVF embryos.

[–]catniagara 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

There could be any number of reasons. Maybe she’s just born again. You’re so right about movies and TV making some people think the drugs booze and sex lifestyle is “normal” and they’re weird if they don’t live it. I’ll just stick to Disney plus lol.

[–]Nihi1986 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

We can't know what she's been through but let's be honest, no sex before marriage (which is already unreasonable) becomes a complete joke in her situation.

[–]RealNiceLady 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Never too late to do the right thing.

[–]Glad-Discount-4761 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Who cares? By pic,she already looks like she can falsely accuse you

[–]catniagara 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

“Plundered used and abused” is almost as repulsive as describing a human being as “it”. I get that you’re upset that she wouldn’t want you anyway; do you get that the person she does want is probably out there?

Do you scroll through mens profiles saying horrible things about them too? Look at this dwarf thinking he’ll ever get laid ewwwwww meanwhile most people with that disorder live completely normal lives.

What do you care what this woman does with her life if you supposedly “didn’t want her anyway”. Are you really that obsessed with hurting others? It’s pathetic.

[–]bludkrazeRED AF[M] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

If you disagree please at least stay on topic and dont insult the OP.

[–]Wide-Illustrator2906 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

do you get that the person she does want is probably out there?

I was with you until this statement. The idea that there are quality men who would wait for marriage to have sex with a 48 year old woman with two kids is delusional at best and a fantasy at worst.

[–]no_bling_just_dingWhitePill (self aware MSTOW) 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

this is just her way of saying she isnt gonna put out for anyone after she was chad-widowed

[–]Fit-Faithlessness149[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

There is always the chance that maybe she used artificial insemination in her 30s because she couldn't find anybody willing to wait for marriage

[–]alienamongnormiesBlackPill 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Sounds like a born again Christian. I guess she wants to do right by God now after she fucked up in the past. I wouldn't tolerate waiting until marriage for sex. But some Christian men believe in this and will accept a born again Christian single mom.

[–]catniagara 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I think they’d be very happy together. I ship it. I don’t wait a long time anymore but that’s because I tried once and was devastated when I couldn’t sleep with the guy. Then again no idea what I actually do anymore since I’ve been with my So for years lol

[–]iamatwork24 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

So I was under the impression that this sub was invite only to keep dipshit things like this out of it. People change. She could be born again. She could have had sex young and after getting pregnant and left alone to not have sex until marriage. What a shitty post and not what I expected from this new sub

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

I hope the mods delete this post. It has nothing to do with debating and is just goofy blackpill stuff.

[–]Fit-Faithlessness149[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

It's not blackpill and you can debate about the reality of her finding a man willing to be her husband

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

It’s a shit post with no substance in regard to debate. You didn’t ask a question to try and facilitate a debate, all you did was post a repulsive single mom implying “Muh Standards”.

[–]SaltyGeekyLifter -1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

🤣 oh dear…

[–]HodgekinWhitePill -2 points-1 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

We're in for a rocky ride. This is just the tip of the iceberg. The millennials are coming through, followed by gen Z.

[–]lostwanderer28 -1 points0 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

It is our own fault for allowing the woke culture to get into everyone's bedrooms with TV shows, movies and social media.

[–]HodgekinWhitePill 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Well said. We are responsible for ourselves and for every other person. There's no difference if you endorse woke culture or you stay silent. You are letting evil take hold.

It's our duty to speak against evil.

[–]lostwanderer28 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Agreed!

[–]WOPR-19831 points [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link

"Just one more guy and then you can wait for marriage..."

I mean, what's just one more guy?

[–]catniagara 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

😂😂😂😂 this sounds like the premise of a hilarious rom com honestly

[–]Incellius_Maximus 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

This is probably someone trolling.

[–]Fit-Faithlessness149[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

No I don't believe so. She had a bunch of pictures and a full profile.

[–]kvakerokWhitePill 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Translation: "I prefer men with ED"

[–]figosnypes 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

What it really means is "unless you are a hot guy under 30, no sex before marriage". I have literally seen a 48 year old woman on the dating sub who was obnoxiously talking about how she won't hook up with guys close to her age or even as young as 34-35, but will hook up with guys in their 20s. Her explanation was that for the guys past a certain age she sees them as relationship material and will "catch feelings" if they have sex, but with younger guys she won't. I call BS on the "catching feelings", what she really means is that she is only attracted to guys in their 20s and is dating the older guys because the younger guys won't settle down with her.

I have a friend who is 40 and she insists that she "doesn't do casual dating" and is "looking for something long-term" and her dating behavior is consistent with this. However, I have only seen her date guys over 35 so far. Based on the way I've seen her talk about certain 20somethings, I am pretty convinced she would hook up with a hot guy in his 20s. And even more likely if he is early 20s.

[–]Admirable_Bee_8714 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

No sex before marriage

Sort of like closing the barn after the horses have run away.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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