Normies tell us sex isn't important but judge everything through sex

To start this off I'm 18 so maybe this is just a gen Z thing but whenever I hear people talking they're always talking about sex. Whenever someone insults a man they choose something revolving his looks like "he's ugly" and then his sexuality and sexual success aka calling him a virgin. Women do the same. Almost every movie and TV show revolves around sex in some way. Almost everything in modern life revolves around sex in somehow. Yet when when we complain about being ugly or short, etc....not being able to aquire it sex isn't everything. Honestly I think they just wanna beat us down and gaslight us for the sake of it. The other day I was explaining to someone a reason I could not go to a doctor for a health condition and they kept giving me the same advice over and over again and then got angry every time I told them why I couldn't do that. I think this is the normie mindset as a whole. They want to see life as a fair game where only those who rank above them like beautiful people and rich people have advantages given by random chance, and they don't wanna admit they themselves have privileges because they see victimgood as a contest.