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q4w: Are you proud of your past, and tell everyone about all your bodies?

November 8, 2022
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Or are you ashamed of your past? And dont voluntarily tell everyone about it?

(I am boycotting r/ppd bc a sour mod with a degree)

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Title q4w: Are you proud of your past, and tell everyone about all your bodies?
Author _Duriel_1000_
Upvotes 6
Comments 26
Date November 8, 2022 7:47 PM UTC (2 weeks ago)
Subreddit /r/AllPillDebate
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[–]TsugaC1 points [recovered] (18 children) | Copy Link

I’m an adult and adults with decorum and self confidence don’t discuss these things, and I don’t date strangers. Everyone in my social, academic, and professional spheres something about one another including the basics about our past lives and adventures.

 

Besides, I consider it my job to make sure the man I love forgets all about the women in his past.

[–]_Duriel_1000_[S] 0 points1 point  (14 children) | Copy Link

I’m an adult and adults with decorum and self confidence don’t discuss these things,

Stop the cap!!

"I met my spouse when I first started my job. They were my first and last love."

Plenty of people are proud of their past and openly share it with everyone. Dont project your beliefs onto others.

[–]NationalistGoy 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Have to agree.

Those who have nothing to hide will speak proudly about their past. Those who have a questionable past will act like past doesn't matter and project that belief on others.

"your past doesn't matter to me, so my past shouldn't matter to you"

[–]Mrs_Drgree 4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Plenty of people are proud of their past and openly share it with everyone.

No one would describe those people as having decorum or confidence.

[–]TsugaC1 points [recovered] (11 children) | Copy Link

If someone openly shared their sexual or romantic history in a social setting I would assume they were insane and I would get away from them as quickly as possible.

[–]_Duriel_1000_[S] 1 point2 points  (10 children) | Copy Link

If someone openly shared their sexual or romantic history in a social setting

Everybody, make sure not to ask u/suga about "How she met her SO" at parties!!

[–]MasonSub4BlackPill 4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

u/TsugaC isn't making much sense, but I imagine it's quite embarrassing to openly admit a failure in any form of relationship. Example: you wouldn't tell your closest friend about the 6 close friends you had before them, because it basically shows you can't maintain any long term friendship/relationship, weakening the current friendship/relationship.

In a perfect world everyone should disclose their past, but I doubt they would actually do so because of the disadvantage that comes with it.
Edit: That disadvantage is being seen as less trustworthy

[–]TsugaC1 points [recovered] (7 children) | Copy Link

I met my SO at a party.

Perhaps you should attend or host a party.

[–]RatDontPanicAverage Unfrustrated Chump 1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Besides, I consider it my job to make sure the man I love forgets all about the women in his past.

Speaking as a man I think that line of thinking is great but it comes with caveats. If a dude is straight up Stacey widowed, he's got a problem that your sex goddess skillz (and I ain't mocking you, you just might have the skills) ain't gonna cure. He needs therapy or something. He's gonna be a pile of heartaches for you.

Same goes for a woman who's alpha widowed.

[–]TsugaC1 points [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link

I have no idea what your jargon means, but I pity the man who believes that sexual skill is universal and can be applied to everyone.

Skill in the bedroom requires paying attention to what the person with you enjoys. No man or woman likes exactly the same things.

[–]RatDontPanicAverage Unfrustrated Chump 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Stacey widowed - dude who had a relationship or one night stand with a hot babe and never got over her and compares other women to her, either verbally or in his head.

Alpha widow - this, but a woman.

but I pity the man who believes that sexual skill is universal and can be applied to everyone.

Indeed. This is why the Red Pill "I need loads of sexual experience" is 100% poor logic.

[–]FastBananaViral 1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

I don’t have a past. I am a kissless virgin who has never been on a date

[–]_Duriel_1000_[S] -1 points0 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I am a kissless virgin who has never been on a date

Thank you for sharing this.

[–]FastBananaViral 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Ok

[–]SwimmingTheme3736 0 points1 point  (8 children) | Copy Link

Neither I feel no need to brag but I am not at all ashamed, I also have little interest in a man’s body count, I’m far more interested in how he acts in the here and now, how well we connect etc.

[–]_Duriel_1000_[S] -1 points0 points  (7 children) | Copy Link

I didn't say brag, I said proud and that you tell everyone about your past.

[–]SwimmingTheme3736 0 points1 point  (6 children) | Copy Link

What I do when I’m naked is private between me and who ever else is here I don’t share that information

[–]_Duriel_1000_[S] -1 points0 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

What I do when I’m naked is private between me and who ever else is here I don’t share that information

Hey.. I see you are just meshing shit to avoid saying you are ashamed of your past. It's okay. You arent the only one.

[–]SwimmingTheme3736 0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy Link

I’m not at all, if a partner asks I will tell them, I don lt just tell people randomly guess how many cocks I have sucked

[–]Wide_Result9679 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Why post a question when you're so convinced you know the answer?

The guys on this subreddit are so delusional about sex and relationships it's hard to witness.

Every boyfriend I've had knows I had a lot of sex when I was younger. Most people I know assume their partners have had sex for fun because they have too. And no one cares. They end up in happy relationships because they're fun, happy people who don't sit around on Reddit judging people for having sex drives.

This subreddit isn't a debate, it's a bunch of bitter dudes eager to let women know they're horrible for enjoying sex.

[–]mcove97NeutralPill 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

It's like asking if I'm proud of eating food or driving a car regularly... I'd say proud isn't the word

[–]_Duriel_1000_[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

what are you proud of?

[–]ChaosRedux 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

OP, I think you’re conflating things that… well, they’re not mutually exclusive, but they don’t necessarily go hand-in-hand.

I’m 30 years old. I’ve slept with a lot of people, and I’m proud of some, ashamed of others. Less to do with the people than what I’ve taken away/learned from the experience.

I’ve loved two people - my partner, and my ex. I learned a ton from my relationship with my ex, and we are still friends today. I am proud of that relationship, if not all of my behaviour during it.

I talk about sex or my sexual experiences when appropriate. I do not when inappropriate.

I am proud of the person I am today, and I am the sum of my experiences (+ sugar, spice, and everything nice).

[–]revente 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Nope, i prefer to be discreet.

Plus I don't want to give police any clue where I've been burying them.

[–]Eyesofmalice -1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I’m ashamed of my past of course. Only narcissists and psychos can be proud about their past.

[–]no_bling_just_dingWhitePill (self aware MSTOW) -1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

well i never had sex or a gf and while im not exactly ashamed of my past i dont think it's something to be proud of

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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