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q4w: does it take a strong woman to turn down sex with a man she doesnt want to marry, or, a weak woman accepts sex with men she doesnt want to marry?

November 8, 2022
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I know people do what they want. People eat what they want, and sleep with who they want. But temptation is there in everything. If a woman cant resist the tempation of food, she'll be fat. When women resist the temptations of sex with men they are not intending to marry, do consider that weak women or strong women?

(I am actively boycotting r/ppd because of a mod with a degree)

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Title q4w: does it take a strong woman to turn down sex with a man she doesnt want to marry, or, a weak woman accepts sex with men she doesnt want to marry?
Author aytubdotcom
Upvotes 6
Comments 19
Date November 8, 2022 1:49 PM UTC (1 month ago)
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[–]EulenWatcher 10 points11 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Depends entirely on her values and whether she sees it as a temptation.

[–]aytubdotcom[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

bye

[–]SwimmingTheme3736 6 points7 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

It’s nothing to do with being weak or strong

[–]aytubdotcom[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

what is weak and strong in your mind?

[–]RStonePTRedPill 7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

strong and weak are just 'I want these things to be valued' without any articulation of why

[–]no_bling_just_dingWhitePill (self aware MSTOW) 6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

a lot of women dont even see something wrong with it so they don't believe in your measure of strength in the first place but i would argue that being sexually unrestrained correlates with slippery morals

[–]sparklyyblueberryy 3 points4 points  (7 children) | Copy Link

Both. There are men I find attractive but I turn them down unless they commit. Also, why only get half the deal. Enough men I want equally that would commit, often those men are even more attractive. But sleeping around is often correlated to impulse control.

But sometimes it is a choice. ”I want to see if he is serious”, ”I need to focus on my own stuff, and want sex but don’t want to get attached” etc.

[–]aytubdotcom[S] -2 points-1 points  (6 children) | Copy Link

There are men I find attractive but I turn them down unless they commit.

so, you are married?

[–]sparklyyblueberryy 2 points3 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

Like that I reject them unless they marry me?

[–]aytubdotcom[S] -2 points-1 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

Im asking if you let men pump and dump you or require marriage?

[–]sparklyyblueberryy 3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Require a long term commited relationship where I trust the person.

[–]Wide_Result9679 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Why do you assume it's always the man doing the dumping? I've watched men get far more attached than women in casual flings, it's not just the reverse that happens.

Calling it "pump and dump" heavily implies you can't imagine sex as a fun release for women, which makes me sad for you.

[–]EviessVeralan 5 points6 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

I would argue that its not a matter of whether she is weak or strong but a matter of if shes making an intelligent or unintelligent decision.

[–]aytubdotcom[S] -2 points-1 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

Explain how a woman choosing to get pumped and dumped is an intelligent decision? And would you consider intelligence a strong characteristic or weak?

[–]Wide_Result9679 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

"Two related factors—education and intelligence—are highly predictive of having a large number of sex partners. Some of us have a mental portrait of Promiscuous America that looks like the Jerry Springer Show, but this doesn’t seem to comport with reality. People with post-graduate degrees are much more likely than their less-educated peers to be promiscuous, and this is especially true of women."

https://ifstudies.org/blog/number-8-in-2018-promiscuous-america-smart-secular-and-somewhat-less-happy

[–]EviessVeralan 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I meant not sleeping with strangers is the smart decision. Women for the most part dont get enough positives to justify doing it in my opinion.

[–]Crimson_axe_worthy 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Intelligence doesn't matter at all. Go read about Steven Hawking's love live including Elaine Mason.

https://nypost.com/2020/09/05/inside-lothario-stephen-hawkings-improbable-steamy-love-life/

[–]LiftSushiDallas 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Your question has built in premises that aren't true for everyone. For example, many of us don't see having sex with a man we don't want to marry as immoral or wrong at all; therefore, it isn't "weakness" that has us do that but simply our desire to do so.

And no, it doesn't take strength to turn down sex with a man we don't want to marry since we aren't linking sex and marriage. You are.

[–]aytubdotcom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

since you dont link sex with marriage, what is stopping you from being lisa sparx?

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