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q4w: if most/all the men you have dated never proposed to you, have you accepted that you are NOT wifey material (aka a slut)?

October 12, 2022
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Believe it or not, in general, most men are the same. This is not to be construed with all men are the same. Meaning if you asked 100 men to rate a group of random women, the majority of men will all agree that certain women are more attractive than the others. If you dont believe this simple truth, then please exit now.

Therefore, if you are having sexual relations with many men, and none have proposed to you, it simply means you arent marriage material, and you are replaceable. Have you accepted this? Why or why not?

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Title q4w: if most/all the men you have dated never proposed to you, have you accepted that you are NOT wifey material (aka a slut)?
Author _Duriel_1000_
Upvotes 4
Comments 14
Date October 12, 2022 7:24 PM UTC (1 month ago)
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[–]RedditsOlderBrah 9 points10 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

holy shit. a time traveller from 1950 has asked a question. the other explanation is that a person in the world today looked at plummeting marriage rates, rising ages of people who do marry, the general unpopularity of marriage in both genders but especially men, and the fact that fewer and fewer people can afford the thousands of dollars to do this fucking moron idiot ritual and thought the fact that a lot of men not wanting to do that with her is a slut.

[–]SwimmingTheme3736 -1 points0 points  (16 children) | Copy Link

I’m what most of you would call a slut

I have had 5 proposals so all my long term relationships

[–]De_Carabas_of_Below 0 points1 point  (15 children) | Copy Link

Why do you think most of us would call you a slut?

[–]SwimmingTheme3736 0 points1 point  (14 children) | Copy Link

Because of the amount of sexual partners I have had

[–]De_Carabas_of_Below 0 points1 point  (13 children) | Copy Link

Which is? and how old are you?

[–]SwimmingTheme3736 0 points1 point  (12 children) | Copy Link

I’m 40 and I have no idea

[–]Glad-Discount-4761 1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

I didn't slept with many man but I already accepted that man isn't going to wife me up as I don't think I am wifey Material and too old for it because I got to know that woman can only be high value in her 20s so I am becoming useless now lol.

There was time that I was thinking of sleeping around as I thought why shouldn't I if I am not going to get married?

I am infertile.Someone told me man will never marry such type even if he don't want kids.Also I am asian and asian dating is bit conservative.

Reading a lot of red pill content helped me to accept reality

[–]RedditsOlderBrah 2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

hey. sounds like you don't have a lot of self esteem and that has been compounded with the stupid shit you see here like 'high value' women. you're more than your ability to have kids or be a wife. hope you think better of yourself.

[–]Glad-Discount-4761 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I am type of person who isn't optimistic and very realistic so what I said is true and woman's true value is being wife and having kids.

[–]LiftSushiDallas 0 points1 point  (4 children) | Copy Link

Well, the men I dated seriously wouldn't propose to me because I made it clear upfront that I don't want marriage and kids, so it wouldn't make sense. However I am in a long-term relationship now of over 3 years and was in a prior 4 year relationship, so I'm certainly capable of getting and maintaining commitment from men I desire.

I wouldn't classify myself as "wife material" since that's not my aim, though I could be a wife for a certain type of man. I'm NOT "wife material" for a man who wants a traditional wife and children, just like a traditional man who wants a traditional marriage and children is not "husband material" for me.

That said, in both of my serious prior relationships we did discuss the possibility of marriage. Ultimately, those relationships ended for a few reasons but none because I was aiming for marriage and the man passed on that.

[–]_Duriel_1000_[S] 0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy Link

Well, the men I dated seriously wouldn't propose to me because I made it clear upfront that I don't want marriage and kids, so it wouldn't make sense. However I am in a long-term relationship now of over 3 years and was in a prior 4 year relationship, so I'm certainly capable of getting and maintaining commitment from men I desire.

If no man has proposed, they aren't committed and dont want a committment with you. You are living in a fantasy land. Its like the man who enjoys the milk, without buying the cow. Your men aren't buying the cow, but they're very happy with the milk. And as long as you're happy, thats what matters.

I wouldn't classify myself as "wife material"

Neither have the men you've dated.

That said, in both of my serious prior relationships we did discuss the possibility of marriage.

Couples also discuss buying houses, and cars, and having kids. Discussions mean nothing. Sorry.

Only proposals matter.

[–]LiftSushiDallas 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

Why would something matter to me if I don't want it? That's like telling me that I can't have ice cream, when I don't like ice cream and I'd rather have sushi.

I purpose sought out men who didn't want kids either at all or at the time, and were not seeking marriage. So it's not a shock to me that they didn't ask me to marry them KNOWING that's not what I wanted. That would be really stupid of a man to do; to ask a question when he already knows the answer.

Only proposals matter in your worldview, but not mine. Compatibility and happiness matters.

And I was happy with the "milk" too. To me, marriage is undesirable. Having sex in a monogamous relationship without marriage is desirable.

[–]_Duriel_1000_1 points [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link

Why would something matter to me if I don't want it? That's like telling me that I can't have ice cream, when I don't like ice cream and I'd rather have sushi.

If no one has ever offered you ice cream, you look like a idiot saying you dont want something that has never been offered to you.

I purpose sought out men who didn't want kids either at all or at the time, and were not seeking marriage.

Stop the fucking cap/ Plus men dont seek marriage. They propose to women who are wifey material.

So it's not a shock to me that they didn't ask me to marry them KNOWING that's not what I wanted.

A man wouldn't try to drive a ford focus 150 mph either. A ford focus isn't built for that, and you arent marriage material.

Only proposals matter in your worldview, but not mine.

Men just dont think you're marriage material. The end.

Having sex in a monogamous relationship without marriage is desirable.

Thats what sluts and girls who want to leave their options open do. There's no problem with thotting and whoring either. I like you's/

[–]LiftSushiDallas 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Your anger is so funny 😄

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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