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Question for blue pillers and deniers of the black pill

January 6, 2023
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If my personality is so bad then why have I known many women online who were obsessed with me for a bit until I showed them my face? Why have I spoken to women over a year, they texted me every day, and then I showed them my face and they blocked me even tho it was supposedly a friendship?

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Title Question for blue pillers and deniers of the black pill
Author Whisperinthelair
Upvotes 13
Comments 38
Date January 6, 2023 6:24 PM UTC (2 months ago)
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[–]HateSpeechFanBoy 2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Having a good personality in real life also does not mean sex and relationships. It means a female being friends with you

[–]RatDontPanicAverage Unfrustrated Chump 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Sad but true.

[–]_Duriel_1000_ 4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

facts

[–]Whisperinthelair[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

πŸ‘Š

[–]EulenWatcher 1 point2 points  (9 children) | Copy Link

I believe that both personality and appearance matter as well as one’s social skills.

Not gonna lie I’m really curious how you look like.

[–]Whisperinthelair[S] 0 points1 point  (8 children) | Copy Link

Ugly and far older than my actual age.

[–]EulenWatcher 0 points1 point  (7 children) | Copy Link

People might have thought you lied about your age.

[–]Whisperinthelair[S] 0 points1 point  (6 children) | Copy Link

They generally focus on looks.

[–]EulenWatcher 0 points1 point  (5 children) | Copy Link

I mean people might have blocked you and all maybe because they’ve thought that you’d lied to them about your age.

[–]Whisperinthelair[S] 0 points1 point  (4 children) | Copy Link

I doubt it. Besides tho this was when I was 16 and looked younger as well.

[–]EulenWatcher 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

How old did you look at that moment and how old were people who ghosted you?

[–]Whisperinthelair[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I don't know.

[–]ElectricBugs 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

So how old were they? Perhaps the issue is they were young and thought an older guy was creeping on them

[–]Whisperinthelair[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

16

[–]Kappador66 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Online "relationships" are not real.

You don't know somebody's personally until you've spent significant time with them irl. Online anyone can LARP as whatever they want.

[–]Limp_Angle_8378 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Cope

[–]blebbyroo -1 points0 points  (8 children) | Copy Link

Online friends are a type of fantasy and then when you show them your face you break that type of fantasy. Personality is important but online it’s less so because it doesn’t come across the same was as in person

[–]Whisperinthelair[S] 0 points1 point  (7 children) | Copy Link

Those girls are shallow right?

[–]TsugaC1 points [recovered] (5 children) | Copy Link

Jesus fuck. "girls"?

If they are women, no, they aren't shallow. They possess a sex drive, just like men.

Do you know the definition of shallow?

[–]Whisperinthelair[S] -1 points0 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

I didn't want a sex relationship out of them. They blocked me because they were shallow. I don't see women as adults. They're children to me.

[–]TsugaC1 points [recovered] (3 children) | Copy Link

Pedophiles don't get choices.

[–]Whisperinthelair[S] -1 points0 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Why do you assume I'm a pedophile? I'm not attracted to prepubescent girls, I just view all women as mentally inferior to myself and other men.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

u/Whisperinthelair said

Why do you assume I'm a pedophile? I'm not attracted to prepubescent girls, I just view all women as mentally inferior to myself and other men.

[–]Whisperinthelair[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

He sounds like a cool guy.

[–]blebbyroo -1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Not really, for an online friend there isn’t a strong connection there you can decide not to converse with someone without it being shallow. You are only assuming it was your looks. That could have been the final straw. You may have said things that they disliked and then showing your face was the final straw that they decided they didn’t want to be talking to you

You need to talk to people in person and not only have online friendships

[–]TsugaC1 points [recovered] (9 children) | Copy Link

What do you think blue pill says?

[–]Whisperinthelair[S] 0 points1 point  (8 children) | Copy Link

That women care about personality.

[–]TsugaC1 points [recovered] (7 children) | Copy Link

Personality can make or break the attraction to an attractive man or an unattractive man.

Does he have a fantastic personality? Is he congenial? Charismatic? Fun to be around? Reliable? Competent? Well-liked, respected? Self-sufficient and well-rounded?

[–]Whisperinthelair[S] 1 point2 points  (6 children) | Copy Link

They all liked me untill I showed my face. That's happened multiple times. If I can get so close to them and they're obsessed with me then how do I have a bad personality?

[–]TsugaC1 points [recovered] (5 children) | Copy Link

I'd have to see evidence that those people are obsessed with you rather than the online persona you crafted and the fantasy they are guilty of crafting.

You need a control group. How many women IRL are obsessed with you?

[–]Whisperinthelair[S] 2 points3 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

My personality is the same everywhere and irl women don't like me because I'm ugly and have a weird voice.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

You don't think your personality is different IRL when damn near everyone behaves differently in the presence of strangers. In the presence of people who they are attracted to, people who are attracted to them, elderly people, married people, relatives, coworkers, bosses, mentors, and service workers?

Are you sure about that?

[–]Whisperinthelair[S] 1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Well, I'm bullied so much that irl I just ignore people.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

It's time to admit that you exhibit different behavior IRL and online.

[–]Whisperinthelair[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I act the same if I'm comfortable around someone. My personality is good, it's just no one wants to get to know me irl because I'm ugly and sound mentally slow.

[–]Play_MutedDark Red Pill 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Damn thats rough experience.

[–]no_bling_just_dingi stand with GD4761 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

looks

[–]Jihocech_Honza 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

This is nothing new. Remember Cyrano de Bergerac.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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