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Read about women's actual experiences. Her looks rarely ever matter to men even if she's fat or not pretty

RatDontPanic
February 4, 2023
12 upvotes
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https://www.reddit.com/r/AskWomen/comments/10smw38/what_is_it_like_dating_when_you_dont_fit_the/

(Note: DO NOT fricking brigade the sub, that's against reddit rules and they're very banhappy there anyway)

Some women in this sub/thread have it bad, but a lot of women are reporting quite a successful hunt on dating apps despite whatever unattractive looks she has. Women are just whining when they say only good looking women are in demand, men are smoking tainted copium when they believe fat women can't find a man.

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Title Read about women's actual experiences. Her looks rarely ever matter to men even if she's fat or not pretty
Author RatDontPanic
Upvotes 12
Comments 50
Date February 4, 2023 4:50 AM UTC (1 month ago)
Subreddit /r/AllPillDebate
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Comments

[–]Zavier221 8 points9 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

I think people are missing the bigger point with this , even if men had a higher looks threshold women still would have more "known" options, why? Because they are the ones getting approached rather than approaching.

A htn normie guy could have lots of options in a specific location but since those women don't actively approach him he has no way of knowing. Yes the women can give "ioi's" but every woman's ioi's.will be different so he still won't know 100% his true options.

While for a normie woman even though she may have 10 options while the htn male has let's say 20 options. More than likely those 10 guys will actively approach, while on the other hand it would be hard for the htn guy to know which women to approach.

That being said women still have more options full stop. But making the number of options equal, women will still have it easier.

[–]RatDontPanicAverage Unfrustrated Chump[S] 4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

These facts are triggering lol

[–]melody_of_ 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

We gon cope today

[–]no_bling_just_dingself-aware MSTOW / i like my pill the way i like my coffee 6 points7 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

there are no selection pressures on women's personalities either

[–]TaxNegative161 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Yes there is. From men with self respect and standards.

[–]no_bling_just_dingself-aware MSTOW / i like my pill the way i like my coffee 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

thank god those havent disappeared yet

[–]Ch0rewhore 5 points6 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

In this sick society men are cattle to be farmed and harvested

[–]RatDontPanicAverage Unfrustrated Chump[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Best post on all of Reddit.

[–]Ch0rewhore 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

🍻

[–]Antisocial_NihilistRedPill 12 points13 points  (12 children) | Copy Link

You have a bunch of unattractive and out of shape women admitting they have no trouble dating, and a bunch of [removed] as replies because the mods are getting butt-hurt about people stating the obvious truths about life.

Any women can have sex with just about any man at any time, while there's a bunch of men out there who will never, EVER, be getting laid no matter how hard they try.

I've resigned to the fact that people simply don't like negativity, no matter how true it is. Most people will eschew facts if it means avoiding negative feelings.

[–]TaxNegative161 -1 points0 points  (11 children) | Copy Link

Any women can have sex with just about any man at any time

By any man you mean any man without standards or self respect right?

[–]InkieForBeingCurry 4 points5 points  (9 children) | Copy Link

Standards according to what? You mean not abusers or criminals?.

[–]TaxNegative161 -2 points-1 points  (8 children) | Copy Link

No, I mean men have standards for themselves and for the women in their lives that is not at all conducive to sleeping with 'basically any woman'.

[–]InkieForBeingCurry 5 points6 points  (7 children) | Copy Link

Different men find different women attractive, that’s why stuff like BBW porn and fat hookers exist.

[–]TaxNegative161 -1 points0 points  (6 children) | Copy Link

Different men find different women attractive, that’s why stuff like BBW porn and fat hookers exist.

Who are you talking to? I've said nothing that contradicts any of that?

[–]InkieForBeingCurry 4 points5 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

You said “men should have standards for themselves”, men are diverse and have different standards

[–]TaxNegative161 -1 points0 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

Oh so I said some men have standards, and your brain added in all that other shit, then you admonished me for shit your brain made up? Cool.

[–]InkieForBeingCurry 2 points3 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

If you want to interpret it like that like a female that’s on you. I responded to what you said and you seem to be offended by that for whatever reason

[–]TaxNegative161 -2 points-1 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Yeah what sort of asshole gets mad at someone typing replies that have nothing to do with what he said at them. I'm going to crowd fund you a tutor so you can parse sentences at an early high school level as an apology.

[–]InkieForBeingCurry 3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Standards according to what? You mean not abusers or criminals?

[–]debatelord_1 3 points4 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

Dating is just a depressing thing if you compare men vs. women. Just like it's depressing to compare physical abilities between the sexes and men just dominate with ease due to being bigger/stronger.

I think you just gotta learn to accept it instead of plotting revenge fantasies about "the wall" or whatever.

[–]RatDontPanicAverage Unfrustrated Chump[S] 3 points4 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Yeah I don't even bother with "the wall" that's the most pathetically copey meme ever. No matter how old, ugly or fat a woman is, she has far greater dating value than the average man ever will.

[–]Last-Post2085 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Men also hit the wall pretty hard so idk why they say women do. A lot of men once they hit 30 are balding, getting skinnyfat with tits, grey hair etc. Especially people who are working class.

[–]RatDontPanicAverage Unfrustrated Chump[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Most men hit the wall before birth, based on looks and height, to say nothing about their 30s. Every decade the wall hits men ever harder considering women's standards. Hell by 2050 dating will be pointless for most men.

[–]hutavan 11 points12 points  (12 children) | Copy Link

There are virtually no standards for women when it comes to looks. Preferences, yes, but no hard-set standards. Any woman of any looks is attractive to someone, whereas men with unattractive looks are destined to rot.

[–]TaxNegative161 -3 points-2 points  (11 children) | Copy Link

Any woman of any looks is attractive to someone, whereas men with unattractive looks are destined to rot.

You mean men with unattractive looks and absolutely no other tangible value of any sort right?

[–]hutavan 3 points4 points  (10 children) | Copy Link

Does this "value" have a definition or is it just a convenient tool for blue-shitters to move goalpoasts indefinitely?

[–]TaxNegative161 0 points1 point  (9 children) | Copy Link

I googled 'socially valuable traits' for you. Here you go.

https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2020/06/200602183412.htm

Does this meet your standards of definition or is it just a means of moving the goalposts indefinitely?

[–]hutavan 2 points3 points  (8 children) | Copy Link

Alright so one of the traits the article mentions is humor. Many incels have a great sense of humor, otherwise IT and FDS wouldn't be stealing their memes and rebranding them as their own. Despite this, none of them can get laid.

[–]TaxNegative161 0 points1 point  (4 children) | Copy Link

Hey, where did the rest of your post go? You berated me to lurk more so I went and did my own research, found out what your sad act acronym meant, and wanted to reply properly but you may have encountered a cowardly wizard who is disappearing your words. Are you familiar with the safest way to fight word wizards?

[–]hutavan 0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy Link

Passive-aggressive cringelord. I edited out the term you didn't understand while still retaining the same point.

Word wizards

How does anyone think this is funny?

[–]TaxNegative161 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

Passive-aggressive

I can't help it if anything more condemnatory than what can be achieved through passive aggression makes the mods sad.

Weird that you'd entirely remove what I didn't understand for the sake of clarity instead of just talking to me about it. I mean, I'm not your dad, but seems like it'd be better to just say 'I lied, we've never produced anything funny and my acronym is embarrassing don't worry about it'. But by all means please carry on whining at me while desperately trying to avoid having to actually say anything lol

[–]hutavan 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

I can't help it if anything more condemnatory than what can be achieved through passive aggression makes the mods sad.

I've been insulting you directly this whole time and mods didn't do anything lol. No, it's not because of mods, you really are just a cringelord with a tendency for passive-aggression and making excuses for it.

[–]TaxNegative161 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Hahaha alright.

[–]TaxNegative161 -1 points0 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Got a few questions: can you please give just one example of anything produced in these communities that is funny? This isn't being condescending I'm serious. I have never seen anything funny here.

Second question, what is a khhv? Something something high value?

[–]hutavan 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Lurk more, talk less

[–]TaxNegative161 -1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Literally asking to listen and you're telling me to... Listen.

[–]Coolio_Street_Racer 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

I as a dude feel like no matter how ugly I was as a dude I could always attract someone slightly uglier then me.

[–]FortniteAbobusWhitePill 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

"Just lower your standards, tee-hee"

[–]puririnpa -1 points0 points  (28 children) | Copy Link

I had people wanting to fuck me but still say i'm ugly or unnattractive, why are men being offended at being the betabux settled one but women are supposed to be ok with it?

[–]RatDontPanicAverage Unfrustrated Chump[S] 3 points4 points  (27 children) | Copy Link

Because betabux will get cuckolded, wind up paying for a kid he doesn't know isn't his, and depending on the circumstances, taken for a ride in divorce court. Two of those three hazards cannot be experienced by a woman under any circumstances.

[–]puririnpa -1 points0 points  (26 children) | Copy Link

cheating (at least among older people, which i think will be the betabux's target unless he's a mega rich sugar daddy or a seamaxxer) is more common among men, betabux will likely just end up with dead bedrooms at worst, most likely.

the point is, most people don't like the feeling of being ''settled on''

[–]RatDontPanicAverage Unfrustrated Chump[S] 0 points1 point  (25 children) | Copy Link

Re-read what I said. Cuckolded AND hit with Paternity Fraud. Plus if she's a homemaker and he's the primary breadwinner, his risk of being taken to the cleaners in divorce court skryocket. So yeah the risk is higher with a man.

[–]puririnpa 0 points1 point  (24 children) | Copy Link

being ugly, older, darker skinned(most cases of an ugly woman getting simps or being treated like a princess i seen were honestly white or otherwise light skinned women) or non-nt(most non-nt women are either shut-ins who don't dabble in romance or weird onlyfans girls) increases a woman's risk of being ''pumped and dumped'' or ''being settled on'' too, besides looks don't only matter in dating.

[–]RatDontPanicAverage Unfrustrated Chump[S] 3 points4 points  (23 children) | Copy Link

Meanwhile men who are short, ugly, etc. risk having no female companionship at all. There is nothing worse than a lifetime of unwanted celibacy and loneliness. Nothing.

[–]puririnpa 1 point2 points  (22 children) | Copy Link

i think being hated on or judged while being asexual is worse, which many women with the qualities i'm saying have the risk of. being hook up material with no feelings attracted also just don't satisfy most non-whore women either.

[–]RatDontPanicAverage Unfrustrated Chump[S] 1 point2 points  (21 children) | Copy Link

Welp, then we're at an impasse because at least she had sex. Many men are never wanted for anything at all. Clearly you think there's something worse than a lifetime of sexlessness and not being wanted at all. There's no common ground here, sorry.

[–]puririnpa 0 points1 point  (20 children) | Copy Link

Being reduced to a masturbation object or being settled on just doesn't validate people, it's the same thing as an incel paying for a sex worker, clearly validation is what incels want, not sex in itself,because having some cash you can spend on guarantees you sex with an escort.

[–]RatDontPanicAverage Unfrustrated Chump[S] 1 point2 points  (19 children) | Copy Link

Very few women pump and dump, if she's opening up to sex with a dude she usually wants to stick around. I hate casual sex so we do have common ground on that, but let's face it, women will never know what it's like to be lonely and totally unwanted for life. Almost no women will ever have any idea how that will hit them at 80. More women have died of COVID hiding in isolation quadruple vaxed than have experienced that, lol

[–]FortniteAbobusWhitePill 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

That's why they give advice "Impr0000ve your personality"

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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