[Serious] TO blackpillers, Have you become more social or get less anxiety talking to people?

Hyena_Utopia · 2022-08-04T21:50:58+00:00

This describes my experience as well. I'm very new to this, still hurting but letting go. Developed way more kindness and respect for ugly people as well. Also some sympathy for the coping average guys telling themselves that their time will come, used to be me.

Something Id like to add is that im less bitter. I realize that theres not a plot against me, im just unattractive. Women are just people, and doing whats best for their hypothetical children. I see innocence in girls but also the inherent cruelty of nature and tragedy of life. The reason women are so short with me and disinterested is because there's literally nothing I can offer them, nothing for them to gain through interaction.

A lot of people, both men and women will say beautiful women have bad, rude personalities. They don't have bad personalities, theres just no real need for her to display those qualities to everyone. Im sure she's a lovely girl with her friends, family and if the right guy comes along, him.

Seeing innocence in people feels way better for me than guarded scepsism.

TriggurWarning · 2022-08-04T21:33:15+00:00

I have, simply because the performance anxiety is gone. I don't have to worry about if someone likes what I say or not because I've gotten to a place where I usually don't give a fuck or give significantly less than before. It absolutely has to do with not giving a fuck, and it's something that takes time and patience to learn and adapt to.

Eyesofmalice · 2022-08-04T23:18:31+00:00

Not really. But i have become more comfortable being alone and less bothered about social interactions since they feel hopeless.

Chalkie_ · 2022-08-05T02:55:12+00:00

I'm not black pill per say but had a long black pill period of my life. Social anxiety has always been something I've dealt with since I was a young child.

These days you would never know. I still feel anxiety around people and social situations but I'm extremely good at masking it.

My advice would be that you'll likely never get rid of the anxiety. But if you can control it and deal with it, the anxiety becomes alot less of a inhibition.

IHateNormis · 2022-08-05T13:47:25+00:00

My social skills have increased exponentially. I used to be hopeless at job interviews and now I excel at them

SlapThatSillyWilly · 2022-08-05T17:45:50+00:00

I don't get excited when talking to females that's for sure, I really have no use for them now.

HazyMemory7 · 2022-08-08T07:01:31+00:00

I'm redpill but for me it was a matter of: what's worse, a little embarrassment and feeling down on yourself temporarily, or a life of passiveness and regret?

Most of the things people get anxious about wont matter after like a week, much less in 5 years.

BoogersAndSugar · 2022-08-09T18:23:18+00:00

Pretty much my experience as well. The reason I was so shy in the past was because I was convinced I was "doing or saying something wrong". When I finally realized that wasn't the case, I not only lost all the anxiety in social situations, but I became a LOT more assertive and less tolerant of shitty behavior.

Title	[Serious] TO blackpillers, Have you become more social or get less anxiety talking to people?
Author	MasonSub4
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Date	August 4, 2022 8:56 PM UTC (5 months ago)
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