Sex as the end all be all

BlackPillPusher · 2022-08-22T12:31:02+00:00

Access to sex is just a bench mark for your desirability.

Having a lack of sex isn't the problem. It's the rejection that's the problem.

There's no doubt, if you're rejected constantly by females, you're probably rejected a lot in life. It's the female rejection that hurts the most, because it's a judgement of the most extreme. A female rejecting you isn't much different than mother nature rejecting your genes. We just don't articulate rejection like that, it's too harsh.

ManWazo · 2022-08-22T15:56:35+00:00

sex won't cure your depression.

It cured mine.

sex won't make you a better person

It did for me,I learned a lot of useful social skills by dating and sex. Those skills are useful everywhere. I'm now a better person because of those skills.

sex won't teach you useful life skills.

See above.

any man with a an extra 100$ is only sexless by choice

Fixed.

sex is just a form of masturbation with the bonus side effect of potentially turning you into a wage slave to a woman for 18+ years

I think your omitting one important information: masturbation is done solo and sex is done with multiple people. This is like saying that there's no point of going out with friends because you can shitface yourself alone on vodka.

Summary: 5/7 of the things you said about sex is false and you failed the assignement with 28%.

Antisocial_Nihilist · 2022-08-22T10:44:46+00:00

I agree, sex isn't the end all be all. It's mostly the feeling of being loved and desired that I want.

But I gotta disagree hard with you on the "$100" thing. In Nevada where prostitution is quasi-legal, some quality sex worker's services can easily START at around $1,500. It's very professional though, and if I was going that route this is what I'd do. The risk of catching an STD or getting robbed is pretty much zero going through a reputable escort service.

The only type of sex you'll be getting with $100 as a sub 5/10 male, is from a back ally hooker in Los Angeles who probably has Herpes, HIV, Hep-C, HPV, or maybe even a combination of those things.

Oh, plus the very real risk of just getting robbed. That happens a lot. You have a hooker luring you to a motel room with the promise of cheap sex, only for a few guys to jump you and take everything you have. And you were there to engage in illegal prostitution... so it's not like you could go to the cops afterwards.

BlackPillPusher · 2022-08-22T14:32:05+00:00

A female study partner strangely gave me unknowingly a lot of motivation to meet up and study together.

I would say a wife can give motivation.

MasonSub4 · 2022-08-22T19:22:18+00:00

I find it ironic that lefties call men they don't like "incels", yet it upholds this toxic idea that men are only valued by society so long as they have sex with multiple woman.

I think society in general puts unnecessary pressure on men to find a relationship or sleep around, because of insults like "incel".

I wish I was valued based on how I treat people, my conversation skills, and my intellect instead of how many "bitches" I fucked

RStonePT · 2022-08-22T13:46:26+00:00

You're looking at it all wrong.

Sex doesn't do any of that stuff. It's just sex. However, the things you do to get sex have benefits outside of sex. If you're attractive sounding enough to get a girl into bed, you're attractive and charismatic enough to negotiate a salary. If you're fit enough to look good and get laid, you're fit enough to be healthy and not have depression.

If you're able to handle rejection well enough to approach more women, you're able to handle rejection well enough to plow through hardships.

The whole point is that by engaging and succeeding with the human condition, you gain the skills to continue to succeed in other parts of the human condition.

sex is just a form of masturbation with the bonus side effect of potentially turning you into a wage slave to a woman for 18+ years.

If this makes you feel better about not having sex, fill your boots.

Marzipan-Happy · 2022-08-22T18:10:30+00:00

We are biological beings. Like other animals, it is our goal to reproduce. Despite being completely sentient, we still feel that drive to procreate. Thus, it really could be argued that an individuals need to reproduce could easily have an effect on their well-being, regardless of the fact that they may not actually spawn.

RazhL · 2022-08-22T18:21:53+00:00

Deeply disagree on all this.

Sex is hugely beneficial to your mental health. On just 1 easy example it means validation. Being able to afford it through money or socially at all is a form of validation.
Might not solve depression. But the statement that any 1 thing solves depression is loaded.
Sex helps humans with their mental wellbeing. Period.

‘Sex wont improve your financial situation’.
Neither does eating.
Both are basic human needs.

‘Sex doesnt make you a better person’ Neither does not having sex.

Sex not teaching you usefull life skills.
You do not realise what you are saying with this?
Imagine being a virgin at 40, or 50+ and still not having the social skills neccesary to “get sex”.
Surely, Being social enough to find companionship is a hugely important life skill?

Sex not getting you a higher position in society.
Yes it does?
Virginity is stereotypically hidden for a reason. Being an adult virgin is looked down on.
Top it that with, being succesfull in money going hand in hand with having an extravogant love/sexlife.

Sexless by choice.
I cant actually afford a prostitute, Even if i wanted to.
Im paycheck to paycheck broke. And so are many others.
Saying its a choice to buy into sex is a privileged mindset.

kvakerok · 2022-08-27T21:07:48+00:00

sex is just a form of masturbation with the bonus side effect of potentially turning you into a wage slave to a woman for 18+ years.

Tell me you're a virgin without telling me you're a virgin. Sex is nothing like masturbation.

BlackPillPusher · 2022-08-22T10:33:55+00:00

This will fall on deaf ears and you know it. Sex is in every part of life pushed. What is 90% of songs about? Love. What is 90% of movies about? Love.

The notion that you should focus on other things is nothing more than a coping mechanism for the people unable to attain it.

BumblingBeta · 2022-08-22T11:52:41+00:00

It's slightly complicated. You're right that JUST sex is not going to do much. If I went out and visited an escort to have sex for 1 hour, that won't solve any problems and might just make you feel even more like sh*t, especially if you could tell she was faking her enjoyment, which I hear most escorts do.

But if you're actually desired and wanted, that's a different story. That will increase your testosterone, increase your confidence and feed into other aspects of your life.

If you need to be a wage slave for a woman, you're not desired.

Truth_Antisocial · 2022-08-22T17:15:38+00:00

Everything you listed can also be said of sunlight, intellectual stimulation and bathing.

Go 2 years without those and report back on how they aren’t “the end all be all”

Title	Sex as the end all be all
Author	BlackPillPusher
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Comments	74
Date	August 22, 2022 10:19 AM UTC (1 year ago)
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