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since there's a lot of talk about high n counts here

October 23, 2022
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what about the reverse, if a woman was a virgin at age 25 or even age 30 to 40, would you consider this a good thing or a red flag?

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Title since there's a lot of talk about high n counts here
Author kokorwqac
Upvotes 1
Comments 50
Date October 23, 2022 9:48 PM UTC (1 month ago)
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[–]Bdog5k 7 points8 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

25 deserves an applause

At 40 she prob has issues, ugly, or a committed vestal. Nobody is saving for marriage and not married by 40 without having problems.

[–]kokorwqac[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

30?

[–]Bdog5k 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Did she go for like a phd or something? If she achieved financial stability it makes sense.

[–]RedditsOlderBrah 0 points1 point  (18 children) | Copy Link

the only virgin i slept with was a virgin at 24. and it had no relevance on my relationship with her because she is not defined by the number of different genitals she has encountered. she is an awesome person, just like all the other girls i've dated seriously who had a wide spectrum of sexual experience before meeting me.

[–]Bdog5k 5 points6 points  (17 children) | Copy Link

Not a good example because virgins are generally considered desirable.

[–]RedditsOlderBrah -3 points-2 points  (16 children) | Copy Link

they are only desirable from the perspective of someone who is bad at sex and insecure about it so they need their partners to be as close to inexperienced as possible so they don't stop sex with you to laugh.

[–]TryLambda 3 points4 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

They are desirable cos you can guarantee paternity

[–]Bdog5k -1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Another good point

( although you can’t guarantee anything with woman) it’s what’s desirable ( you want to be able to).

[–]Available-Ad-9338 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

A virgin could still cheat on you if she resents you for whatever reason or has FOMO and it's easy to lie about being a virgin anyway. The only guaranteed way to ensure paternity is a DNA test.

[–]Bdog5k 3 points4 points  (9 children) | Copy Link

Oh, you are retarded…

Good luck with that.

[–]RedditsOlderBrah -4 points-3 points  (8 children) | Copy Link

no worries bro when you want to stop being an insecure mess of a human there will be people waiting to lend you a hand to join the rest of us.

[–]De_Carabas_of_Below 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

Wait wait wait.

Did some woman once tell you that you were good in bed?

...

...

And you believed it? ROFL!

[–]RedditsOlderBrah 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Oh cool it's you. Your brain is extremely fucked up and is unable to parse simple sentences. I know because this:

Did some woman once tell you that you were good in bed?

Does not exist in my post. You made it up in your head. Your head makes you think about me being good at fucking.

[–]SmurfESmurferson 1 point2 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

One of my college roommates - a cute natural red head - was kissless until just before her 21st birthday

At some point in late HS or very early college, it started weirding guys out. I literally watched guys in college learn about this and have a physical “creeped out” reaction

She’s happily married, a mother, and loves her career. So things turned out ok in the long run, but there was a really awkward, uncomfortable stretch there for awhile

(Before anyone asks, she was probably a 6, slim, great hygiene, and had the most gorgeous head of naturally vibrant red hair. Red head fetish guys constantly hit on her, but couldn’t overcome the “never been kissed” factor. Took a devout Catholic)

[–]reverbiscrap 0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy Link

Those guys wanted a hookup, not a wife.

She found a man who wanted a wife, and a lack of sexual experience isn't a problem in wives.

A lot of women aren't taught enough about men to separate sexual attention from romantic attention, and that only hurts the women.

[–]SmurfESmurferson 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

Actually, it’s the opposite

This is back when men were taught the baggage that comes with a virgin woman - stage 5 clinger and all that. How her feminine neuroses and hysteria will be on full display bc she was never taught by experience to reign it in. And this is before we touch on the higher likelihood of her having a lower interest in sex

Some guys still preferred that, to be fair. But most guys preferred someone between a slut and a virgin

Guys today never got the memo that virgin women come with their own problems, which is bizarre. No one is perfect

[–]reverbiscrap 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

How far back? I'm pushing mid-40s, and hookup culture was starting to embed itself in to college in a serious way.

[–]SmurfESmurferson 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I’m mid-40s. This was college age. You don’t remember movies like American Pie and Wedding Crashers painting a very different picture of female virgins?

[–]RazhL 0 points1 point  (8 children) | Copy Link

Its a shitty opposite.

A guy sleeping with lots of woman is seen as a ‘chad’.
A virgin guy at 30+ ages is seen as creepy.

A woman sleeping with many guys is accused of being a ‘slut’.
A virgin woman at 30+ ages is seen as pure.

All of these are deeply ingrained social stereotypes. Pretty stupid imho.

[–]reverbiscrap 0 points1 point  (7 children) | Copy Link

Have you ever done any research on why this is so prevalent, in multiple cultures around the world for the length of recorded history?

[–]RazhL 0 points1 point  (6 children) | Copy Link

Research? Not really.
I just see these things all around me when talking to people. Its hard not to run into conversation with people gossiping about someone being a slut/creepy etc.

[–]reverbiscrap 0 points1 point  (5 children) | Copy Link

So your context is solely the speaking of people from a modern western cultural mindset where relationships have broken down and men and women generally can not get along or understand each other?

How old are you?

[–]RazhL 0 points1 point  (4 children) | Copy Link

Yes. Im talking western culture.
Idk about that second part. Most people i know do just fine in their relationships. Some do not, breaking up and finding another within a month or 2, easy.
How they do it or how that works idk. But i don’t see it as you described it.

Also, Age 31.

[–]_Duriel_1000_ 0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy Link

a 30 yo virgin female is a HUGE red flag.

[–]TryLambda 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

She’s lying or is butt fugly

[–]kokorwqac[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Or maybe she just didn't want to fuck

[–]_Duriel_1000_ -1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

yep

[–]SmarmyPapsmears 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yea. I'd prefer a body count of 1 or 2 to a virgin but virgin still beats high n

[–]FastBananaViral1 points [recovered] (25 children) | Copy Link

Yes that would be preferable. Non virgins are disgusting

[–]RedditsOlderBrah 3 points4 points  (11 children) | Copy Link

it's hard to help struggling men change in the right ways in order to forge interpersonal relationships as no two cases are the same. so it's really refreshing when you can just point at a guy and say 'you're a fucking horrible person, and people are right not to be around you'

[–]FastBananaViral -5 points-4 points  (10 children) | Copy Link

Yes, someone is horrible because you disagree with them. You must be a fun and reasonable individual

[–]RedditsOlderBrah 4 points5 points  (9 children) | Copy Link

I'm not a virgin. He literally called me disgusting.

[–]FastBananaViral -5 points-4 points  (8 children) | Copy Link

I’m sorry, did you want to have sex with me?

You have to look at the context of the thread.

[–]Ghsakr1 points [recovered] (9 children) | Copy Link

Lol this is so pathetic. Cope harder.

[–]FastBananaViral 1 point2 points  (8 children) | Copy Link

How is my opinion a cope?

[–]Ghsakr1 points [recovered] (7 children) | Copy Link

How is it not?

[–]FastBananaViral 1 point2 points  (6 children) | Copy Link

Erm, you made the statement?

I will entertain you though.

I am not trying to alleviate anything. I find non-virgins disgusting and would much rather get with a virgin.

[–]no_bling_just_dingWhitePill (self aware MSTOW)[M] 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

don't make things personal

[–]FastBananaViral 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

I never told any individual they are disgusting

[–]no_bling_just_dingWhitePill (self aware MSTOW) 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

okay i get that you meant in general and you were talking about sexual attraction but be more specific in the future

[–]KirthWGersen 0 points1 point  (6 children) | Copy Link

Being a virgin past the age of 20-25 is usually a sign of a woman who has fucked-up ideas about sex. Probably not her fault, but something I would prefer to avoid. I like woman whose body, mind and heart are all connected and who love men and love sex. Late virgins tend to bring more problems than benefits.

[–]Glad-Discount-4761 0 points1 point  (5 children) | Copy Link

Being a virgin past the age of 20-25 is usually a sign of a woman who has fucked-up ideas about sex.

Still guy would choose this woman rather than non virgin.No guy cares about how much she knows about sex.Women being expert about sex is not attractive.Also having a lot of sex ages women more.

[–]KirthWGersen 1 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

I am a man. I know what I am talking about. I much prefer a woman who is experienced sexually and emotionally.

[–]reverbiscrap 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

As a sex partner, or as a wife and mother of your children?

They are not the same thing.

[–]KirthWGersen 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

That is true. But I didn't want a virgin as the mother of my children either. I have all the kids I want, so now it is just about having people in my life whom I want to be there.

[–]Available-Ad-9338 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Also having a lot of sex ages women more.

Do you have a scientific source for that?

If I have sex 1000 times with the same man, does that age me more or less than if I had sex with 10 different men once each?

[–]no_bling_just_dingWhitePill (self aware MSTOW) 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

koko i knew this thread had to be yours just from the way the title was written

i would consider it a good thing for me

[–]De_Carabas_of_Below 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Virgin at age 25? Cool

Virgin at age 30? A bit odd.

Virgin at age 40? Spinster.

[–]Coolio_Street_Racer 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

No it would be a green flag, given she is desirable.

[–]Play_MutedDark Red Pill 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

good thing

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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