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The brutal truth about being an ugly man

January 7, 2023
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As a man inherently no one will care about you unless you offer them something, money, protection, looks, social hierarchy and as an ugly man you're at a huge disadvantage. People will never love you for your looks which is the closest thing to loving you for who you are, very few will actually love you for who you are. While ugly girls eventually will find a guy and be happy. I've seen it multiple times "miserable lonely girls" they always end up with a guy out of their league, we'll rot unless we make money and attract gold diggers who will just wanna exploit and use us. We're at the bottom of the barrel, even other men will want to dissociate from us. It's extremely brutal and awful. Of all the people we could've been born as we were born as ourselves. The only way out is the rope.

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[–]zastale 3 points4 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

If I was that ugly (and I’m ugly, but salvageable with surgery), I’d rather just be low IQ at that point. At least I can be ignorant about my situation.

[–]Whisperinthelair[S] 2 points3 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

I'm low IQ and I'm still fully aware. Only difference is I struggle to achieve anything career wise. School is almost impossible. Only thing I'm good at is planning to a degree and predicting what people do.

[–]zastale 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

Brutal. Maybe seek something in law enforcement/criminal justice.

[–]Whisperinthelair[S] 2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I'm just gonna make money here working at warehouses then go overseas.

[–]zastale 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Good luck fren.

[–]HateSpeechFanBoy 4 points5 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

Money also doesn’t work that much now

[–]BoogersAndSugar 1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Yeah really. And that trend is escalating. The beta-provider strategy won't even be viable for most guys anymore, only for literal rich dudes. We're gonna see an exponential increase in leftover males over the coming years, and it's gonna be interesting to see how society as a whole responds.

[–]Financial_Leave4411 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Is it not a good thing that women aren’t looking at men for their money? I know it was a big thing in the red pill community (might still be) to protect your wallet. This prevents gold diggers.

[–]Last-Post2085 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

The beta-provider strategy won't even be viable for most guys anymore

Would you really want to do that strategy anyway? Knowing this person literally hates you but only gets in your bed for money? It's no different from a hooker. Two people should be together because they are physically and mentally attracted to each other. Not because they only care what is in your wallet. I'm glad the beta provider shit is dying off.

[–]BoogersAndSugar 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I predict we're gonna start seeing ugly guys dropping out of the dating game en-masse, now that they're realizing women are only "less visual than men" in a pragmatic, business-like sense. The only women an ugly man can get are those willing to settle for them, which comes with a whole host of problems and risks that make these arrangements not worth the trouble.

[–]Whisperinthelair[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Men are too horny to drop out. At least the majority.

[–]qaadeleted 1 point2 points  (9 children) | Copy Link

The ugly girls are seen nothing more than "a submissive doll who I can use anytime I want"

And if they don't act like wanted, atleast they are a punching bag in human form.

I think the actually brutal truth is that regardless of your sex, you are pretty much disposable carbage in the end lol, neither sex is special in that sense.

[–]Whisperinthelair[S] 2 points3 points  (8 children) | Copy Link

Ugly girls on average have more relationships and marriage than ugly men. No one wants ugly men.

[–]SilentFroggy 1 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

Do you want an ugly girl yourself?

[–]Whisperinthelair[S] 1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Idc about looks as long as they're healthy weight wise.

[–]SilentFroggy 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

It happens. Lack of female attention creates desperation

[–]Whisperinthelair[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

True.

[–]qaadeleted -1 points0 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Ugly girls on average have more relationships and marriage than ugly men. No one wants ugly men.

But does it indicate that the ugly girls are wanted either rly? Or that the thing(regular sex) they bring is valued more often, just like with money/power etc. in the male counterpat situation? I think generally men and women put very different kind of value on sex, men more than often seeing it as stable need than women or atleast women in this time and age down valuing it due accesbility(? dunno is that understandable word, sorry for my bad english lol)

[–]Whisperinthelair[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

They get a relationship and relationship or marriage which usually means it's more than just sex. Most ugly girls I know who get married usually have kids or find happiness in other ways. Usually the man doesn't treat them like they're ugly. It's often a desperate average man they're with and sometimes even a desperate above average man. I'd say they have it way better off than ugly men. Lol.

[–]ElectricBugs -1 points0 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Source?

[–]Whisperinthelair[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Already linked it multiple times.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I think even though I’m ugly in the western world because of the tough dating scene, in Africa I go from a 3 to a 8 just because I’m a foreigner with money. We should use the social economic change to our advantage, western women are extremely entitled and ask for too much, I think ugly men should exploit the women from low wage countries with their foreign status.

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