the flip side of "women don't owe you anything"

so let me start off with a premise to filter out some of the people that live in a parallel universe here: a woman can install tinder and shop for men like a consumer on amazon.com regardless of her own lifestyle and achievements, and most of them are married to uncle sam when they're single (not that i'm against welfare in principle, i would think a society with no safety nets is barbaric). so it makes sense that the treatment the vast majority of women give men is really not good enough to convince some guys to work their asses off for a slim chance at slim pickings if they know the market well enough - they're in demand so they simply don't need to put in effort, it checks out. they/them, vegan, fat is beautiful, my body my choice, i hate men, my kids are my world, swipe left if you can't take me to fine dining and your height starts with 5'.

so now that the whole "women don't owe you shit" argument has been beaten to death, i'm wondering honestly what they are doing that should draw interest from the demographic of average, under 6'0" guys' interest aside from owning a vagene because the meat sleeve isn't worth it and isn't accessible anyway - if she has ambition, that's great, better than being a deadbeat and mooching off of the public fund, but it's going to serve her and herself only most of the time. if she's a good mother, that's great for her kids who share her genes; it says nothing about whether she's worthwhile for her male partner. the masses of men are pursuing them and following red pill self improvement bullshit to chase some very hollow outcomes. as for the rest, when they hear "be a better person", they understand it as "be a sucker for me."