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The Mating Crisis: Why the Dating Market Is Doomed

February 10, 2023

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[–]LainselBluePill 11 points12 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

Normies are monetizing off all the research and talking points "incels" did for the past 10 years by making this content. People were saying all this was going to happen since over 10 years on puahate and r9k and now, you have all the redpill channels going blackpill and making money by making these videos. Keep in mind, these same people were calling the incels lazy basement dwellers and schizos 10 years ago

[–]TaxNegative161 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Huh. Almost like the red pill is doomed to failure eventually leaving its adherents even more lonely and hopeless.

[–]LainselBluePill 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah because it was a grift all along and women only care about looks and height

[–]sebasTLCQG 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

NAh it´s a evolution phase of the Red pill

[–]nothatyoucare 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

8 billion people on earth. We can go for a century with negative population growth and be fine. Shoot the climate wars will render all this meaningless.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

This is flat out wrong. Check out IndianBronson on Twitter for more information.

[–]Glad-Discount-4761 -3 points-2 points  (9 children) | Copy Link

Honestly,let's forget it

At least men don't have to deal with toxic women.

Dating market is bad for women more than men because women wouldn't be happy with it while men can be satisfied with simple things.

Otherwise get prostitute.

But it seems bad for people who want to raise kids, anyway I don't care if they don't get to do it.World is crazy anyway

[–]Necessary-Worry1923 -2 points-1 points  (8 children) | Copy Link

Here in America 75% of High school valedictorians are female and most college students 60% are female.

Therefore women with degrees will have to marry a bus driver or a plumber, but as it turns out they mat just stay single instead.

Maybe America will become more like Japan where many adults are not having sex.


13% of women are looking for casual sex while 31% of men say they are. Most women are looking for LTR.

[–]LainselBluePill 7 points8 points  (6 children) | Copy Link

Cope. It's not about education or money, it's about looks. Most women realize the men they want are in the top 10% of looks and will only pump and dump them so they stay "single" while getting pumped and dumped all their lives. Guys with good careers are also invisible to women

[–]TelephonicRugPeddler -3 points-2 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

It’s 80-90% looks when you’re young. As women age (post-30/35) they actually become slightly more genuine in their “looks don’t matter” lies - there’s studies on this. I would say looks go down to a 50% or so weight (this one isn’t scientifically based, just my guess).

But at the same time the other 50% is about their profession, status and probably 15% of that is personality - and women would rather stay single indefinitely than date a bus driver or really any man who has a “lesser” job title or makes less money than them or has a lower education level. So it’s still over if you’re an ugly blue collar type, even with the beyond 30 women, unless you want to date whatever is considerably beneath an ugly, uneducated blue collar man.

[–]Necessary-Worry1923 0 points1 point  (4 children) | Copy Link

As women " hit the wall" they begin surfing their friendzones for those ugly betaorbiters who now in their mid 30s start getting promoted to middle management own houses and 2 cars and begin the " settling" process of asking these beta guys to marry them and help raise Chad and Tyrone babies they had during their hookup phase. Not surprisingly these beta orbiters have gotten passports and going on the passport bro tours in the Philippines.

[–]Glad-Discount-4761 0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy Link

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[–]Necessary-Worry1923 1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Hi hope you are well.



I think women can still find 2nd and 3rd marriages after 35.

It might be a friendzone beta orbiter but it still happens belive it or not because male thirst is not to be underestimated.

[–]Glad-Discount-4761 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link


Guys they get married to,they just settled for him but wouldn't treat good or respect him.She is not exactly happy because her past lover will be still in her mind

It is unfair to men

[–]Glad-Discount-4761 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I think women can still find 2nd and 3rd marriages after 35.

You got to be fucking kidding me

[–]Glad-Discount-4761 -1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah that's why I said dating market is bad for women not man.It is already doomed and their happiness decrease with age anyway so who cares.

Man can actually enjoy single life,casual sex or not.They have chance with younger woman so why care about those women who already choosen worst path

[–]Last-Post2085 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Good video. I think it fails to mention that apps like Tinder have also increased the range from where women can pick from. Previously, they were mostly limited to nearby communities. Now? They can find a man 100 miles away thanks to dating apps and it's very easy to hop on a 30 minute train. There is a lot more competition now not just in your local area.

[–]TermAggravating8043 -2 points-1 points  (10 children) | Copy Link

So men aren’t getting sex and they think the best thing to do is whine about it rather than prove themselves worthy?

Can’t imagine why it’s not working

[–]LainselBluePill 5 points6 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

prove themselves worthy

You can't prove yourself worthy. Women will only swipe right on extremely tall/handsome men even if she's fat and ugly herself

[–]TheOffice_Account 5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

You can't prove yourself worthy.

Have you tried being taller?

[–]Glad-Discount-4761 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Exactly,gym and focus on yourself really helps man in dating

[–]RatDontPanicAverage Unfrustrated Chump 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Worthy for what? You don't even realize... it's better to be lonely than hitched to what's out there right now. A woman who won't love a high school grad won't love a college grad - she only loves his status. That's absolutely ruinous for any LTR. My college grad wife never cared about my Bachelor's degree when we got married, she never even asked until after we got married. If you can't say that about the woman you're dating... bail, now.

[–]TelephonicRugPeddler -2 points-1 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

Exactly this. Most men simply will not maximize their looks. I went in on this beginning in 2018. I maximized my time in the gym, maximized my style, maximized my online dating profile, have impeccable grooms standards, learned what it meant to be physically attractive down to the science, I even got plastic surgery because I refused to get left behind and wanted to fucking slay.

Then, I was going through 3-5 women/month all from online dating as a 5’9 ethnic minority in the USA in NYC. Sure, Chad can go through 100/month if he wants with 9s/10s but doesn’t matter to me, am having sex and I don’t date below a 6.

[–]Glad-Discount-4761 0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy Link

Downvotes you got lol

[–]TelephonicRugPeddler 1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Many defeatist hate to hear it. Plastic surgery works wonders and there’s corrections for every possible facial deformity. The only guys I feel bad for are the guys below 5’6 because it’s beyond over for them.

All the other incels are just lazy mofos not willing to do what it takes to ascend. And again I stress plastic surgery because looks are everything and that’s the best cure for it.

“But I can’t afford it” take that shit on credit and default on the payments. Bankruptcy for 7 years is better than wasting your 20s being ugly and not being able to date because of it.

[–]Last-Post2085 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

The only guys I feel bad for are the guys below 5’6 because it’s beyond over for them.

I am exactly 5'6". I can be 5'7" if I wear sneakers with 1 inch of base height. Is it over for me do you think? I also have a 4 inch penis, if it matters.

[–]TelephonicRugPeddler 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Lol not sure if troll with the penis comment but:

No it’s not over, like I said I am 5’9 and do fine (and did fine in Florida and NYC). I mainly date in my ethnic group so you can target Latinas and Indian women, they tend to care less about height. Will probably be a dealbreaker for 99% of white and black women. You can also heightfraud to 5’7-5’8 by lying and using lifts.

Also, penis size only matters for recurring encounters. If you’re really 4” (and I encourage you to learn how to properly measure to be sure) then use your fingers/tongue to get her off.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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