The men who harm women the most are not incels, they are the men who women choose to be around.

Antisocial_Nihilist · 2022-12-03T13:37:30+00:00

It's political. The war on terror is now domestic. There needs to be domestic boogeymen to justify further censorship and online monitoring. "Incels", "alt right" etc are perfect scapegoats to use as examples and to lie and exaggerage about. Why? If you mention the statistics of crime and race, you're racist. If you mention the fact that a lot of trans people engage in grooming, you're transphobic... but what if you hyperfocus on "white supremacy" and the myth of violent lonely men? You have a free rein to say what you want about them.

The US knows it's invicible from the outside but the nation is riddled with identity politics and division. Keeping everything at bay means canceling out opposing ideas and dissidence long term.

infinitofluxo · 2022-12-03T15:42:30+00:00

Women can't admit they like the personality of cold narcissists and bad boys, so they hate the undesireable man and project on them what they see the bad boys doing. It is pretty easy as the losers are already criticizing women on their shit so they can deny the accusations plus find the scapegoat.

TsugaC · 2022-12-03T16:20:05+00:00

There’s a reason why fathers chose the husband for their daughters (no, I’m not referring to the ones who sold their daughter for three goats and a glass of milk).

no_bling_just_ding · 2022-12-03T14:08:30+00:00

water

deadinsidefemale · 2022-12-15T18:43:19+00:00

i disagree with your hypothesis for 2 reasons

- most of the violence, rape, pedophilia etc. happens around people you know, this is both for male and female victims. for example a teacher is more likely to do pedoshit than some random stranger on street, a family member is more likely to murder you than some guy on street too. therefore it's true that familiar men are more likely to harm you, it's because people who know you get more opportunities to do shit to you in general than some guy who probably leaves the house once a month.

- incels, while might not be the most likely to commit harm due to being too loserly or not getting enough opportunities, still aren't innocent babies either if you read their forums, it's filled with pedophiles lusting after 12 year old girls, racists, violent psychpathic texts, hate.. it's not surprising some normie who reads them comes to hate incels, even if not all virgin men act like this, the ones who identify as incels do give them a bad name.

- yes there are legit some women who like psychopaths, however they are usually a minority of women who are filled with psychological problems... i honestly think the badboy trope is dying and even a dued who outright acts like an effeminate cuck gets more attention than an ugly badboy if he's cute. which is still shallow yes, but not the same thing as your hypothesis.

HateSpeechFanBoy · 2022-12-03T23:05:09+00:00

There is nothing they hate more than an unattractive man. Actually I am wrong, they hate most an unattractive man who doesn’t accept his place and dares speak up about it. That is why they blame all the ills they possibly can on unattractive men

Antisocial_Nihilist · 2022-12-03T12:45:24+00:00

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Title	The men who harm women the most are not incels, they are the men who women choose to be around.
Author	Antisocial_Nihilist
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Date	December 3, 2022 12:36 PM UTC (3 months ago)
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