Just be first theory requires the most important maxxing of all, PropinquityMaxxing.

It seems like there is very little to no ways of interacting with woman in general daily life which could prosper the propinquity required for a relationship, like that what we see in the older generations, to form.
Ever heard incel talk about college or high-school love? that's literally one of the few easy ways to develop a relationship, because of PROPINQUITY.

Because most of our interactions are becoming online, looks becomes this factor that's blown way out of proportion because online interactions don't give the required propinquity.