The silver lining of modernity (for both women and men)

On the women’s side:

There’s never been a better time for a girl to be a slut; in fact, in today’s world women are applauded and encouraged to act as such. Let’s think about it, millions of girls are jumping out the gate the moment they turn 18 to get on onlyfans and other webcam/porn gigs.

Moving to older stages, there has never been a better time to be an unmarried, barren woman in their late 20s to 40s as there is little to no societal shame for this demographic anymore. Oftentimes, we see this configuration promoted and encouraged as they are strong, independent women who are fighting against the patriarchy.

Hell, was recently watching a Seinfeld episode where they were looking at a single mother who walked into the diner skeptically wondering where the father was, it made me realize that there’s never been a better time to be a single mother, even one who’s obese and promiscuous at that. *In fact, single mothers are considered heroes in today’s world. *

Women have never had such streamlined and ease of access to top tier men to blow out their backs; something a lot of women on here take for granted. At the swipe of an app, even an obese woman can get a tall, good-looking man to pump away.

If a man a woman is dating happens to have the slightest imperfection, a woman can simply ghost and block him as she has dozens of other men willing to date her in today’s landscape.

On the men’s side:

There’s never been a better time to be a virgin (in their 20s or 30s) NEET who lives with their parents. Sure, being a man who can’t get laid may not be ideal, but with the endless amount of cheap if not free entertainment available in today’s age (and hey weed is being legalized) — it’s incredibly easy for one to sedate and distract themselves out of their misery. Not to mention, there’s never been the level of access we have today to quick, free, and high quality porn. In the coming future, there will likely be very immersive and stimulating sex robots/dolls that will help greater act as a serviceable substitue for actual sex. With so many men nowadays getting laid sparingly or not getting laid at all, the impact of insults targeted at virgins/men not getting laid has been greatly diluted.

There’s never been a society that has had such diminishing standards for men. Even older generations are starting to understand that there’s not much incentive for men to put themselves in the workforce grinder as there’s hardly a carrot, let alone an ever-diminishing stick as first-world securities oftentimes provide at least bare material essentials.

Furthermore, because traditionalism has been deconstructed. You’re no longer expected to be put in a 60-80 hour a week work-to-death grinder just to come home to a wife who will nag and bitch at you and won’t have sex with you. You won’t have to deal with said wife deciding she simply ‘fell out of love’ with you or blaming you for ‘working too much’ (even if it afforded the lifestyle she was expecting/desiring) that somehow ‘pushed her into the arms of another man’ as they consistently have spewed time and time again — not to mention, said estranged wife taking away your house and half of your investments/assets that you toiled away for once No-Fault Divorce was enacted.

In a more broad sense, many men currently are benefiting by being born and growing up during peace times — as most men in their 20s would be sent to die in the meat grinder of war in most other periods of human existence.

For both men and women:

Fundamentally speaking, there’s never been a better time for a man or woman to be overweight/obese and single and otherwise what would be considered a failure in any other timeline of society.

Ultimately, society has pretty much fully abstracted away any real sense of shame in the modern age that anyone can effectively act as whimsically and unrestricted as possible. This probably won’t be good for the long-term stability of the society itself (regardless of what people say, shame has been a common element in pretty much all cultures throughout history up until very recently and very likely had an evolved function as a stabilizer in human social/tribal groups), but it’s an incredibly leveraged and concentrated win for the individual. I believe people should reflect and meditate on these factors and realize that ultimately there’s always a give and take for a variety of predicaments.