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what communication style do/did you use with your partner at different stages of your relationship?

October 21, 2022
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did you use RP tactics? did you just go "naturally" at it? how does that go?

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Title what communication style do/did you use with your partner at different stages of your relationship?
Author no_bling_just_ding
Upvotes 0
Comments 10
Date October 21, 2022 2:24 PM UTC (1 month ago)
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[–]decoy88A Black Dude♂️ 2 points3 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

Direct communication, from start to finish. It’s easier that way.

[–]no_bling_just_dingWhitePill (self aware MSTOW)[S] 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

i agree but for content sake would you give an example

[–]decoy88A Black Dude♂️ 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

An example would be.

“I’m not looking for anything serious, just want some fun”

“I’m seeing other women too”

“Here are my STD results” (unprompted)

This built a foundation of trust because I demonstrating willingness to be honest even atvmy own expense of losing pussy. That quality did lose me some pussy but carried me through to being super appealing to others.

When it came to getting serious, my word was believed more - why would I suddenly lie about wanting exclusivity if I hadn’t before?

In the day-to-day, most of the little lies people tell are unnecessary, if we are bored we say we are bored. If we don’t want to talk we say we don’t want to talk. And so on.

[–]RedditsOlderBrah 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

all those stupid fucking tips about 'don't respond to texts right away' or 'try and make her jealous' can go right in the fucking bin. those same dipshits will complain about women 'playing games' when they've been playing games the whole fucking time.

absolute honesty and expecting the same in return will see you right.

[–]EulenWatcher 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I guess you could call it direct communication. Neither my husband or I used cold and hot or "hard to get" games, negging, dreading etc. Neither of this bullshit. We had a few chats, he asked me out, I agreed. We talked about our families, childhood friends etc. A bit about our future plans. Due to our age and cultural background it was expected that we were exclusive from the first date.

[–]RatDontPanicAverage Unfrustrated Chump 0 points1 point  (8 children) | Copy Link

Naturally. I'm not a misogynist psycho so I don't use RP tactics, nor am I a fucking male feminist simp so I don't use BP tactics. I always keep it real.

[–]no_bling_just_dingWhitePill (self aware MSTOW)[S] 0 points1 point  (7 children) | Copy Link

whats "keeping it real" entail for you

[–]RatDontPanicAverage Unfrustrated Chump 1 point2 points  (6 children) | Copy Link

I don't bother with posturing or toxic masculine behavior with that dominance crap that RP pushes and I don't simp or grovel, either. What's good for her is good for me and vice-versa. We listen to each other and try to compromise when we differ on stuff. We pull weight together. Most of all we're equally yoked.

[–]RedditsOlderBrah 0 points1 point  (5 children) | Copy Link

lol your worldview borders on rational, but i will say it is amusing to see you eschew 'toxic masculinity' only to publicly denounce the blue pill because THAT'S not how you be a man!

nah you're alright.

[–]RatDontPanicAverage Unfrustrated Chump 0 points1 point  (4 children) | Copy Link

I never said "how you be a man"

Blue pill just grovels. I ain't a groveller, not to them or RP. I decide for myself what being a man is all about.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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