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what do guys you know that could get girlfriends, or are ''chads'' like?

December 9, 2022

looks, personality, anything

just curious

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Title what do guys you know that could get girlfriends, or are ''chads'' like?
Author puddingdesperation
Upvotes 2
Comments 26
Date December 9, 2022 2:57 PM UTC (3 months ago)
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[–]SDW137 3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

They all have nice facial features, are either white or passable as white, tall, and are in good shape, if not shredded.

[–]Anti_Thing 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Interesting. I'm tall & white, & I know many men who do much better with women than I do despite being short, non-white, or both.

[–]HateSpeechFanBoy 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Tall, white, square jaw and asshole

[–]caption291 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Tall assholes that aren't fat. Those would be the most consistent things.

[–]no_bling_just_dingself-aware MSTOW (hit the wall at age 0) 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

they're tall and fit

[–]OberOst 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

They're all tall.

[–]noonereadsthisstuff 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I know four guys who are stereotypical chads (tall, good looking, jacked)

Two are in LTRs, one of whom is a ridiculous overgrown manchild (I play warhammer 40k with him)

One is really friendl humble & a bit shy.

One is a typical omnisexual who's over 40 but still fucking every women he meets and living without any cares at all.

[–]FortniteAbobusWhitePill 0 points1 point  (5 children) | Copy Link

Tall, money.

[–]puddingdesperation[S] -1 points0 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

I honestly think face>height in the end

[–]RedditsOlderBrah 2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I'd point out that it's all just the guessing of profoundly unsuccessful men being used to host a small pity party where you all assure each other that it is the things you can't change that are most important so you can feel good continuing to make lazy social decisions.

[–]caption291 -1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah, that would be a pretty lazy statement that banks on people disliking those men and liking the people those men are making negative implications about.

So I'm glad you aren't making it because that would be a very lazy social decision imo.

[–]FortniteAbobusWhitePill -1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy Link


[–]platinirismsBlackPill -1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

They’re all tall. Some of those are also handsome. We’re all lower class dudes so no status, personality varies greatly from shy and autistic to outgoing and loud.

[–]infinitofluxo -1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Around me I see guys with better jobs and Chads with wives and girlfriends. Looks or money. When you don't have looks, they usually are looking to know your job and income and if it is not enough they loose interest. Funny, cultured, warm, available, only works as pluses. Fame can substitute money sometimes. Usually they are together.

[–]MicrosoftOSX -3 points-2 points  (8 children) | Copy Link

pull out a mirror, that is what a "chad" looks like.
the first step of being a chat is believing you are a chad.

[–]HateSpeechFanBoy 0 points1 point  (4 children) | Copy Link

I’m a trans Chad but I’m not allowed to get hormones and surgery to transition

[–]Glad-Discount-4761 0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy Link

I’m a trans Chad

Are you trolling?

[–]HateSpeechFanBoy 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

No, I identify as a Chad

[–]Glad-Discount-4761 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Are you trans?

[–]HateSpeechFanBoy 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I am transChad. I am a Chad in the body of an incel

[–]debatelord_1 -1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy Link


[–]puddingdesperation[S] -2 points-1 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Im female

[–]MicrosoftOSX 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

then you dont need to know what a chad looks like (practically). your instincts will help you pick your type of chad. but you are curious, so here is my answer:
people will say the rock is a chad, or maybe they will say johnny depp is a chad, or maybe zac efron is a chad... a chad is a person with "big d energy" and ""big d energy" is a mindset.
like cubism, all the masters more or less painted with the same mindset, but they produce visually different pieces.
the only defining trait for a "chad" is a man's ability in believing in himself, a man who is able to play with the card he was dealt. Everything else are just distractions. There are obvious correlation such as looks, but they are correlation, not causation.

[–]Green-Quantity1032 -4 points-3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I can get a girlfriend, don't want one. Not chad.

Had a wife, she was pretty hot (and I actually loved her) but I wanted casual experiences.

Looks-wise I'm 180cm @ 70kg.

I go to the gym and right now I'm hovering 17% body fat, I'd say my body looks nice and lean but my hands/shoulders could get bigger, hopefully by summer I could get like 5kg in.

Facially It's hard for me to judge, sometimes I like my face sometimes not. I'd say above average and depends on what the girl likes/dislikes about faces.

Nose on the big side, jaw a bit receded, nothing too serious but could be better.

I guess if I do jaw surgery I'll be killing, but it's not an easy route to go for.

If I keep below 18%bf I'm mostly OK with my face.

Posture - I used to be really hunched, now I'm mostly fine but it could be better as I lack consistent posture habits.

Going back to the jaw it's a contributing factor to your whole posture.

Personality - Depending on the day I'm either introverted or the funniest talkative guy you've met.

When I go on a date I make sure to be on a good talkative day, I think my personality is cool and I'm pretty good at making subtle (and not-so-subtle) advancements during dates.

Also on the personality side - not to brag (but also to brag) I'm usually the smartest guy she'd ever dated (Been said to me not once).

For example no matter what she does for a living I have something to say which shows her I'm "in the know" on the subject.

I think guys really underappreciate how being smart/good-memory/quick-wits/dark-humor can make you seem more attractive.

Money - I don't really earn a lot, but I seem like I do, and I could be making more than double.

I decided I rather concentrate on my lifestyle than money, maybe I went a little bit too far with it, but I'm not in bad financial terms by any means, I rent an apartment in one of the highest-rent cities in the world (but competition from other guys in this area is fierce).

So personality/wits I'm above 8 easy.

Looks I'm anywhere between 6-8, depends who's rating.

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[–]Anti_Thing 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Most men I know can get girlfriends.

If you're talking about men that seem to do exceptionally well with women, they're all confident, extraverted, muscular, & have high-status degrees or are working towards them. All but one of them are genuinely nice people, & even the one who's kind of an asshole has a deep moral compass + can be nice when necessary. Perhaps most important of all, they're all devoutly religious, strongly political, or both, & have successfully nichemaxxed.

This is only men I'm either good friends with or share a social circle with. I'm aware that there are men who don't fit the above description who do well with women, though I've only interacted with them in passing.

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