what if someone wants to play harder mode

Really? I’m at a wedding right now with half Australian & half Americans. I’m one of 3 single people, 2 being Aussie male (jokester bachelor best man trope) & other fat Aussie girl. The Australian men are all fat, or barely in shape, & aren’t particularly attractive, or interesting (it’s pretty obvious they’ve never struggled with anything nor likely done anything remotely interesting with their lives), yet all of their wives are smoking hot. And they all seem happy. Maybe the only thing is they are all tall, 5’10” is probably the shortest Aussie. None of them have particularly interesting or difficult to achieve careers (teachers, Human Resources, etc..). They are all, however, clearly from well-off enough families in what’s equivalent to upper middle class American suburbia in Sydney. I know as I’ve visited Sydney and seen the neighborhoods where some of these folks were raised. If you’re in the financial sector and are Australian…you should be doing alright? Maybe these couples all met at the right age/circumstances in college before these women realized their value. Like this woman last night sitting across from me, my dream type gal, I would’ve fallen in love with in a heartbeat, and I’m thinking damn her husband must be some super Chad, nope - just a short balding grade school teacher.

To me it felt like at least this group of Australians were on easy mode. Be that women or job opportunities.