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What pill ideology do you fall under, and how did it affect your standards?

July 30, 2022
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Here's mine, My standards plummeted like a rock after I got blackpilled.

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Title What pill ideology do you fall under, and how did it affect your standards?
Author MasonSub4
Upvotes 10
Comments 27
Date July 30, 2022 8:52 PM UTC (3 months ago)
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[–]alienamongnormiesBlackPill 5 points6 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I'm black pilled mostly. But I'm a bit blue pilled when it comes to romance. Just to maintain my sanity. If I believed in my mind that the only thing a woman was good for was sex, I would cancel my gym membership and go back to eating like shit and living a sedentary lifestyle. Love is what makes life worth living. Otherwise life is mostly shit. Even if you are rich, what is even the point of life other than consumption if love doesn't exist?

In terms of strictly physical stimulation, the grip from your own hand is going to be better than any vagina. Period. I've been with like 14 prostitutes and 9 civilians. My sample size is large enough for me to definitively make that statement. It's the oxytocin from pair bonding with a woman that makes sex incredible. Sex is a mental experience, even for men. The reason why I really enjoyed sex with my hot sweet ex is because of the chemical reactions that were going on in my brain before, during and after sex. When we are cuddling and kissing as well.

My standards are likely higher than the average guy because I had a hot gf back in 2015-2016 and the oxytocin and dopamine rush of fucking, cuddling and kissing her is something that I want to experience again. And I'm not going to experience these feelings again settling for some subhuman. I dated a sub-par girl after her and had casual sex with sub-par girls after her and it just wasn't the same.

[–]EnteFetz 4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I'm pretty blackpilled. My standards went to zero when I figured out how women actually behave when I was around 24. I still want a sweet loyal girl, but at age 27 I still haven't managed to get into even one relationship. Recently I found out that many older women on dating apps are looking specifically for younger slim guys purely for sex. I fit that description and have had quite consistent sex roughly every other week for the past few months with women above 35 who are not really attractive, but they are enthusiastic about having sex with me and I am happy about that.

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

I am my own thing instead of a specific pill. I am all for self improvement but I don't want to adapt to the dating norms of modern world I want to change things inorder to protect romance as a cultural institute. I want to challenge and deconstruct modern dating norms and hook up culture since they are antagonistic towards the romantic culture. I believe both men and women have flawed ideas of relationship and attracting a partner. Pillers have merely interpreted dating but the point is to change it

I would call myself a principally romantic. It goes beyond romantic relationship actually, if y'all want me to make a post explaining my ideology I will be glad

[–]MasonSub4BlackPill[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

yeah why don't you, it would be good to have differing perspectives

[–]formentoru 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

This is not something originall, you would find pill name for this too.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

What is the pill name for this ideology?

[–]BoogersAndSugar 3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Pretty much my story. Standards? What's that? After a lifetime of nothing but rejection no matter how much I lowered my standards, by my mid-20s, I'd lowered them to the point where I was asking out women so big they needed mobility assistance, women over 20 years my senior, disabled women, women with intellectual disabilities, even a burn victim who was missing her hair, an eye, her nose, her lower lip and half her teeth....yet STILL got continually, constantly rejected!!

[–]hdksndiisn 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

What about escorts? What about you, in your own words, is leading to rejection? How you approach these women? Personality? What about your appearance is so limiting?

Have you counterintuitively tried the opposite and raised your standards? Instead of going for the 2’s go for the 7’s?

And what have you done to change what you can change about yourself that you know improves your chances? ie gym, diet, education, job, all the way to maybe even surgery?

Just curious, cause that’s a helluva lot of rejection and sounds fucking terrible man, feel for ya

[–]Antisocial_NihilistRedPill 2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Eh... its hard for me to say.

But I guess Redpill because that's what I initially identified as when the movement first came about.

And for my dating standards? I have none. I'd date pretty much any woman under the sun, but no matter how tactful I am in my approach to date women who were at my level or lower, it never worked. They have options which are better, sometimes even way better.

And oftentimes women at my level looks wise aren't even interested in a relationship, much less with men in her own league. They just want to engage in hookup culture and one-night flings. And we all know that attractive men absolutely dominate the world of online dating.

[–]alienamongnormiesBlackPill 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

And oftentimes women at my level looks wise aren't even interested in a relationship, much less with men in her own league. They just want to engage in hookup culture and one-night flings. And we all know that attractive men absolutely dominate the world of online dating.

I have a theory for why this happens. My ex has told me even as recently as May that casual sex is very easy for women to get but that women don't usually want that. They want a relationship. Thing is, my ex is the type of girl that jumps from relationship to relationship. I see the same old women on POF for months and years at a time. The type of women you find on dating apps are either happy with casual sex with Chads and sugar daddies or they are holding out for commitment from a guy who meets their list. Or they have a man and they are looking to monkey branch or cuckold their man. This is why the women on POF are perpetually single. The women like my ex who get snapped up quick, they don't stay on the apps for very long. That's why you don't often meet women like her on the apps. Heck I didn't even meet her off an app, she messaged me on a forum noticing that I was in the Toronto area and the rest was history. lol.

I should like write an e-book on online dating tips and sell it on Kindle. lol. If you see the same woman on dating apps for months and years at a time, that should be an immediate red flag to you. Don't invest a lot of time on a woman that you know has been on the dating apps a lot recently. What you want to focus on are the women who are new to the apps or returning to them after a lay off from them. Because those are the women who are more likely to be serious about finding a relationship.

[–]lostwanderer28 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

For me it is the dark one. But as time went on it was a bit too dark for me, I would say I don't have strict pill ideology anymore. Rather just trying to observe life and dating dynamics.

[–]gilamonster69 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I am conservative caveman pill. I don’t know how i fit in.

[–]sexiterrorist 1 point2 points  (6 children) | Copy Link

The only hope I have with is a blind man, so blackpill i guess

[–]MasonSub4BlackPill[S] 0 points1 point  (5 children) | Copy Link

What about short and ugly guys? What about hunchbacks?

[–]sexiterrorist 0 points1 point  (4 children) | Copy Link

Depends on the man

[–]MasonSub4BlackPill[S] 0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy Link

so you wouldn't date a short, ugly man?

[–]sexiterrorist 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

no i want a man who has a face similar to mine. i’m above average body wise but not facewise

[–]Glad-Discount-4761 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I am more aligned to redpill.Actually I found out about it during my relationship and after it ended.

Honestly,I didn't thought of my standards,I was just there to learn truth about male and female nature as no one explained me that.

By the way ,I don't get other pills like white,pink ,black, purple.WTF .That's too much. I bet in future there will be rainbow pill

[–]HodgekinWhitePill 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I went from blue to red to black to "white".

I don't know what pill my thoughts fall under, but it's essentially one of courage, faith and truth.

I'm married for 4 years with 2 kids.

I went from not understanding humans, to understanding women evil nature, to understanding human evil nature, to understanding human good nature.

I went from not believing in a higher being to believing in a higher being.

My standard for people is more about character, but I still judge people 1st by appearance.

[–]Born_Section2687 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Blackpill and redpill, even though I don't know how to rate myself. I just try to look as better as possible and to develop different social skills and individual abilities, one of them is etiquette, I enjoy being polite and knowing how to carry myself well, and I noticed that a lot of people see me as different from the rest because of this improvement decision. I'm 23yo woman.

[–]mcove97NeutralPill 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

My ideology is common sense so I guess purple pilled or no pill? I'm a woman though. None of these pills really affect my standards.

[–]catniagara 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I’m an anarchist.

I just read all the subs trying to predict who will radicalize enough to kill someone first.

[–]Eyesofmalice 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Black pilled. No standards.

[–]Drive-By-CuckersWhitePill 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I have no pill, I’m just enjoying my journey like a leaf floating on the wind

[–]bludkrazeRED AF 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

there is only redpill and if you know what youre doing you leave even that behind.

[–]Any-Bottle-4910 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Purple. Women are horrible. Men are horrible. Women don’t have to hear about it and smile. Men do. I was a blue pill young guy, but life red pilled me. Women are just as bad as men, often worse, and totally oblivious to the fact that they live off the labors and deaths of men. So, I’m purple pill now. I want the discussion to be two sided. Women aren’t ready for that. True equality would make them sob daily. With that said, men couldn’t handle period and childbirth. Women? Not a man’s life for sure, and yet they all seem to think it’s easier than theirs.

[–]ManWazoA poly Chad 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I have no pill since there's not a "poly pill" or "feminist pill" or "antiheterocispill". It did affect my standards since now I'm more selective, but it also affected my success rate. When I was redpilled, I had no game and was pathetic and desperate. Now I'm not and dating is so much easier!

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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