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October 23, 2022

For shits and giggles I'll be churning out some youtube content to counter the 99% stupidly worthless bullshit in the manosphere content space.

My first video will be about masculinity, and how nobody can tell you how to do it right or how to 'be a man'. Well, except me. I'm able to and I'll do that.

But I really want to be of interest to the people here and the rest of my target audience. What do you want to see discussed? What would you like to see a dude with some answers speak on?

This ain't just for my benefit though, this will give everyone ideas for interesting topics.

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[–]Wide-Illustrator2906 1 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

Race and Location. These are two of the most important factors in dating that get completeley overlooked. I'm a big proponent of self improvement but if these two things aren't aligned in your favor, in certain cases you are simply wasting your time

[–]RedditsOlderBrah[S] 1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

really good point. one of the most irritating things i see here is generalisations; 'yeah just say this to a chick it'll work' or any variation of 'all women think like this'. a working class woman in fiji is going to respond very differently than a working class woman in chicago, and racial experience is evidenced to be relevant.

that said, i think you're being a little gloomy. these factors just need to be adjusted for and that's something you can control.

[–]Wide-Illustrator2906 2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I don't think I'm being gloomy at all about race. Many people underestimate the sheer amount of people (especially white women) who are uninterested in dating someone outside of their race. I do agree they can be adjusted for and your race could be a huge detriment to your dating life in one location but a huge bonus in another.

[–]RedditsOlderBrah[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

that's more like it. much healthier take.

[–]no_bling_just_dingWhitePill (self aware MSTOW) 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

how much effect does culture have

[–]RedditsOlderBrah[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

absolutely massive amounts. every culture values different traits to different degrees. anyone who has so much as been travelling will be able to tell you of some faux pas they'd committed. and intimate relationships are the most complex relationships we form as humans so the significance of cultural differences compound.

[–]debatelord_1 0 points1 point  (10 children) | Copy Link

Do something about mentalcels.

So much of this pill-posting is basically dudes trying to rationalize their problems with girls due to their mental issues (autism, ADHD, social anxiety, depression etc.).

[–]RedditsOlderBrah[S] 0 points1 point  (9 children) | Copy Link

100 bro. reasonably functioning autistic / adhd dudes can be helped by some good internet advice but holy shit, there are people with severe social anxiety / depression that literally cannot be helped by an internet man or anything less than a practicing, qualified healthcare professional. it is absolutely something i plan to address. i want autistic et al dudes to feel included because they can absolutely still succeed they just need to get comfortable with themselves.

[–]debatelord_11 points [recovered] (7 children) | Copy Link

I had a revelation this weekend about how fucking over it is.

I had a girl on my goddamn bed, wanting me to fuck her and I sperged out so hard. Peak anxiety. Managed to leave the situation as a kissless virgin.

This is the 2nd time this has happened to me. Being a mentalcel is the worst I swear.

[–]RedditsOlderBrah[S] 0 points1 point  (6 children) | Copy Link

don't stress it bro. if you'd have just not worried about sex, it would have happened at you. getting out of your own way is a skill. don't worry. you'll get there. and being an autist myself maybe i'll be able to say some things that make sense to you.

[–]debatelord_11 points [recovered] (5 children) | Copy Link

When a girl is on my bed spreading her legs for me wtf am I supposed to do but worry about sex?

It was my moment to shine and I crashed and burned.

[–]De_Carabas_of_Below 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link


Weren't you describing autistic boys as "social retards" a week or so ago?

[–]De_Carabas_of_Below 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

Why is feminism now beginning to reject the sexual revolution?

Tabula rasa: Truth or bullshit?

What effect does genotype have on sexual preference?

[–]RedditsOlderBrah[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

The same reason that feminists no longer feel the need to talk about their right to vote. Society and feminism is moving on to more pressing concerns.

[–]De_Carabas_of_Below 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

More pressing concerns than the right to vote?

Interesting. Such as?

[–]LiftSushiDallas 0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy Link

Male-female polarity for LTR's.

Online "game" for men to get women to agree to a first date.

"Dread game" active and passive, and its role, if any, in an LTR.

Men as success objects, women as sex objects.

How the differences in sex drives between the genders affects the sexual marketplace.

[–]RedditsOlderBrah[S] 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

I don't know what the rest of your post means but I can answer this:

How the differences in sex drives between the genders affects the sexual marketplace.

There are no gendered differences in sex drives. There are differences in how they become aroused, and there is a lot of data that when analysed by someone who doesn't know that correlation does not equal causation can be interpreted as women having a lower sex drive. But it is just not fact.

[–]LiftSushiDallas 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Absolutely false. As a woman we definitely are not always turned on or always seeking sex like men are. Women can far more easily go for periods of celibacy than men. For men sex is the reward and for many women, sex is a means to an end.

Anyone who claims men and women have no differences in sex drives is ignorant.

[–]RedditsOlderBrah[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link


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