~ archived since 2018 ~

When a woman asks you out on a first date at her place, is it wrong to expect sex?

February 24, 2023

Idc if I come off as entitled but I’m expecting to smash, is that wrong?

TheRedArchive is an archive of Red Pill content, including various subreddits and blogs. This post has been archived from the subreddit /r/AllPillDebate.

/r/AllPillDebate archive

Download the post

Want to save the post for offline use on your device? Choose one of the download options below:

Post Information
Title When a woman asks you out on a first date at her place, is it wrong to expect sex?
Author Libah05
Upvotes 3
Comments 16
Date February 24, 2023 10:06 AM UTC (1 month ago)
Subreddit /r/AllPillDebate
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/AllPillDebate/when-a-woman-asks-you-out-on-a-first-date-at-her.1153525
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/AllPillDebate/comments/11anxfw/when_a_woman_asks_you_out_on_a_first_date_at_her/

[–]zastale 5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

No. A fair amount of women will say “don’t expect anything” for plausible deniability, and you’re expected to play along when it’s really an invite for you to escalate at some point. There is a chance that nothing really does happen, so don’t be too forceful. Thirdly, some are very outright and aren’t afraid to make the first move.

[–]Wirlix00BlackPill 4 points5 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

You can already expect sex. She already finds you attractive.

[–]Libah05[S] -1 points0 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Obviously blackpill is water. Matched on tinder as well

[–]Wirlix00BlackPill 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

It only proves the blackpill.

[–]TaxNegative161 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yes. I would absolutely prepare for sex, but 'she invited me to her place on the first date guys!' isn't a defence I'd like to try on in court.

[–]KirthWGersen 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Never expect it. Never feel entitled to it. That takes all the fun out of it.

But in my experience, under those circumstances, it is 90% certain she will be hoping to have sex, so all you have to do is not say or do something outrageously stupid and you are in.

[–]Eyesofmalice 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Well I wouldn’t know really. But I do think that such mindset won’t allow you to see wether you really like the other person or not.

[–]ManWazoA short king with high ncount 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

You can expect it, but it might not happen. If you can't handle a no, don't go on dates.

[–]RatDontPanicAverage Unfrustrated Chump 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link


[–]Nihi1986 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Of course not, just be aware that if she doesn't want sex doesn't mean she won't want it the next date and be respectful all the time, make her feel comfortable regardless if you get sex or not.

Expecting sex is perfectly fine as long as you can manage dissapointment and you don't put too much pressure on that. If you get sex, great, if you don't, you will probably be luckier next time, though you are most likely getting it.

[–]FortniteAbobusWhitePill 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Where is the pill?

[–]sebasTLCQG 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

You should at least expect some kissing, + Anal or a Bl***** if she aint giving up the p****.

If it´s just kissing you can do it anywhere so yeah, she invites you to her place, it´ll be more than Netflix and Chill, you can likely sleep together and have some night fun.

[–]Rook_Cross -1 points0 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

LOL, yes it's wrong. Never expect, don't ruin things with expectations, only in your mind. People shouldn't have sex outside of marriage and certainly not on first dates when they don't know if this person is carrying any STDs.

[–]KirthWGersen 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

This is the voice of the devil.

Just chill and enjoy yourself: nature made you to fuck.

[–]no_bling_just_dingrip GD4761 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

i agree about the first date thing and stds but... do you really think that woman gives 2 shits about saving it for marriage? most people don't (twoX women have something to say about that), and regardless of what choices you make as a man there's a good chance you end up with someone like that or nobody at all because that's what's out there. don't preach unrealistic ideals to people who don't care for them.

[–]EviessVeralan -1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Honestly youre better off not expecting it but being prepared just in case. This way if it does happen, awesome. If sex doesnt happen, you wont be let down.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

© TheRedArchive 2023. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter