Why Are So Many Young Men Single And Sexless: The haunting relationship trends wreaking havoc on 20-somethings.

Last-Post2085 · 2023-02-28T11:10:36+00:00

Most of the comments are blaming porn. But porn is just a symptom. Like I would never choose porn over a real woman who I was attracted to. If I was given the chance, I would choose real people over porn any day of the year. But I was never really given a choice.

I have urges and those urges make me struggle to focus. Like I can't focus on my work at home if I am horny. So I will fap and then I can continue to focus on what I was doing before with full clarity and no horny brain fog. If I knew I had a wife or girlfriend waiting to come home. I would want to have sex with her instead of fapping (if she was up for it of course).

A lot of the comments are also blaming men. Saying that women have stepped up and men are falling behind. But I don't really get how women how stepped up. Most women are overweight or obese. Most women work the same 9-5 job I do. Most women watch Netflix all day just like how men watch anime or play video games. I live by myself and I (obviously) do all my house chores, clothes washing, cooking etc. There is nothing a woman does that I do not do already.

Antisocial_Nihilist · 2023-02-28T06:41:34+00:00

The blackpill is getting to a point of reaching critical mass. Just read the comments in that thread, lmao.

no_bling_just_ding · 2023-02-28T19:24:19+00:00

it's not about money, it's about the apps and the invention of birth control. the dating apps and social media. even if we lived in the gold rush, with our current technology, there would still be incels everywhere. look at tech guys who make six figures and still get no play! every woman who turns 18 gets more attention in ten minutes than a medieval monarch did in a week... and the old ones were once 18 too.

KirthWGersen · 2023-02-28T10:48:43+00:00

When I was that age I too would have described myself as single. I mean, was having sex with multiple women, but didn't consider myself taken.

Perhaps some of those women didn't consider themselves single because they were having sex regularly.

That may account for some of the disparity in the figures.

Opening_Pattern_301 · 2023-02-28T23:45:03+00:00

the answer is simple: masculinity is in crisis, we got men crying, whining and comitting suicide because some woman, who is not even that good personality wise, rejected them, the idea that getting pussy makes you more of a man is the most harmful thing that has ever happened in western society, im pretty confident that if we got rid of that idea things would improve

Title	Why Are So Many Young Men Single And Sexless: The haunting relationship trends wreaking havoc on 20-somethings.
Author	Antisocial_Nihilist
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Date	February 28, 2023 6:38 AM UTC (1 year ago)
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