Why do some people still follow female dating advice?

Male and female dating imperatives in modern society are fundamentally opposed. Female dating advice isn't "how to appeal to women sexually" advice as much as it is "how to appeal to ME romantically" advice. Hell, I'm being far too generous by suggesting that women's dating advice so much as describes how to appeal to them. The sole purpose of female dating advice is to empower women and disempower men in the dating market in a zero-sum game.

Take international dating for example. There are plenty of reasons men do it: from desiring certain races of women, to simply wanting a less corrupted dating pool. However, one demographic of men I've seen engage in the practice a lot is autistic men. I've seen so many stories of stable educated men in the U.S. or U.K. who became more and more jaded after failing at dating. If it's not bad enough that they can't attract women, the few women they manage to pull for dates lose interest immediately due to their neurodivergence. These guys then date in place like Eastern Europe or Asia, attract beautiful women who reciprocate easily, and maybe eventually supress their autism indefinitely due to this newfound confidence.

I find stories like these every now and then in subs like confessions, trueoffmychest, or relationship_advice. The man explains how he chose to date abroad because he never got attention from local women, and the bluepillers angrily rebuke them and say some platitudes along the lines of "why don't you consider that you could never hold women's attention because of your terrible personality instead of blaming your autism and exploiting women from poor countries?" My first response to that line of thinking is: It's well documented that autism has a tremendous burden on a man's love life, do you expect him to ignore that fact because of your "amazing 5'4 autistic bf" who totally exists and you didn't make up for the sake of argument? Secondly, the fact that such a man can attract beautiful women from the right dating pools disproves that his personality is the problem, doesn't it? If anything, it goes to show that their lack of dating success was entirely women's fault.

Thirdly, and going back to the point of this post, what alternative dating advice do you have to offer? There's a reason Einstein's most famous quote is "insanity is doing the same thing over and over while expecting different results." Men are a problem solving demographic. We identify the problem (a man can't attract women in his dating pool) and we try out solutions (we pursue more attainable dating pools). The women who say "just don't date abroad like a creep and work on your personality" really don't know what they're arguing against. Remember my other post about that fat white neckbeard who matched with 1,000 Filipinas? Men have 2 options: either date at home, and fall into suicidal depression chasing hundreds of thousand of women who think they're too good for you, or date abroad, where there are hundreds or thousands of women are more beautiful, less demanding, and more reciprocal. Why do women expect men to give up the dating success of a lifetime just because they say so? Do they expect us to suffer at home? What do they have to offer that beats the prospect of thousands of beautiful women who want to marry you: the western dating pool of entitled slobs who don't need no man who won't entertain them? Don't make me fucking laugh.

That's just one example of dogshit female dating advice. It absolutely grinds my gears when I go to some sub like dating or dating_advice and the women give some advice like "just don't focus on love and it'll find you" or "love will come when you least expect it to." Are you shitting me? Men HAVE to approach actively and endlessly, sitting around and waiting for a high quality option's proposal is [believe it or not] an option unavailable to most men. Are women ignorant when they give this advice, or intentionally malicious (trying to weed LVM's out of the dating pool by tricking them into giving up)?

Let's not talk about how women hate the race but love the winner. I've noticed that when men suggest the only way to get better at dating is to improve their looks, invest, get wealthier in general, or go to the gym, women will respond saying "what you really need is therapy" or "the gym won't get you better emotional intelligence." But who do they fuck: is it the sensitive nice guy who goes to therapy, or the jacked business mogul? Seriosuly, reddit women will tell you they don't date cops becuase they're toxic or doctors and lawyers because they're full of themselves, but guess which 3 professions get the most pussy? Seriosuly, I wonder if women are intentionally trying to worsen male dating prowess with their ridiculous advice.

The worst part is you can't even escape female dating advice no matter where you go. All the big subs like r/dating, r/dating_advice, r/relationships, and r/relationship_advice are ruled by misandrist feminists who ban all generalizations of women for "promoting division" while allowing all sorts of generalizations against men to stay. When you try to create a niche sub like a redpill subreddit to give dating advice that isn't crap, a cabal of subreddits like niceguys, neckbeardthings, thebluepill, blatantmisogyny, and nothowgirlswork start documenting "leh toxic generalizing comments" and promote the brigading of our communites until they're censored. Remember r/deadbedrooms? It used to be one of the only non-biased mainstream dating advice subreddits out there that wasn't biased. But recently, it's been getting invaded by the feminist crowd who proceed to give women in deadbedrooms unlimited pity for having lazy partners while claiming that men only aren't getting sex because they can't please their partners or some other bullshit. In particular, this absurd feminist theory that the uneven division of housework is the only thing limiting female sex drives, and men are only in deadbedrooms because they're not doing enough housework, is spreading like wildfire there. Even the users of r/deadbedrooms, male and female alike, have started complaining about the recent anti-male bias on the subreddit. Worst part is, the people giving this garbage feminist advice aren't in deadbedrooms, or even married or in monogamous relationships. They just think every community has to entertain their juvenile, inexperienced, and anti-male perspective on long-term relationships.

I'm just sick of it, it's like women give the opposite of good dating advice on purpose. And they can't stop shoving their shitty perspective everywhere. Men: just don't listen to women's dating advice. Doing so is like voluntarily putting a bullet in your brain. Better yet, just do the opposite of their advice. If they say women don't like men who initiate sex early, be the man who initiates sex early. If they say they don't like being approached in a certain place and time, now you now exactly where and when to approach more. If they say your problem is therapy and you need to stop going to the gym, start taking roids and cutting every therapist out of your life. If they say you should stop targeting muh vulnerable groups of women (e.g. younger women, women with daddy issues or mental illnesses, or women from poor countries) then terrific: you now know the best dating pools to pursue.

Please don't waste time on their advice, such a perspective is beyond worthless. They want power. They want to structure society in a way where women as a collective control sexual access, and average men have no dating prospects besides onlyfans, porn, or chad's used up post-wall excuse for a mess. When you're learning to catch a fish, you ask a fisherman: not a trout. I know someone's gonna call me unhinged or say I'm in the anger phase, but I stand by all my words.