Why are people go against men who suck up to their women? Idk how one would describe my husband, but he does everything to make me happy. He’s stepping up and he tries to do almost all the chores, he just puts 90% of his (sizeable) income into our joint account in which mostly I manage, he does all the night waking of our baby, the cooking in our home, etc. why is that a bad thing?

When I’m happy, he gets happy endings and a happy wife. He gets a happy wife which means he also has a happy life.

Why are most people so against this?

(No, I’m not a total slum who does nothing - but lately, he’s been doing a lot more than me and we both happier).

Edit: i don’t know why people just keep assuming he’s the sole breadwinner. How much one makes is irrelevant, it matters more how much one works. But if y’all keep being focusing on it, I make more. I also invest more.