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why is the paranoia of ''settling'' or ''cucking'' so prominent in women when men cheat more?

September 20, 2022
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pretty much every country's stat is like this

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Title why is the paranoia of ''settling'' or ''cucking'' so prominent in women when men cheat more?
Author kokorwqac
Upvotes 2
Comments 32
Date September 20, 2022 6:21 PM UTC (2 months ago)
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[–]tired_hillbilly 15 points16 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Men have more to lose; how many women end up unknowingly raising someone else's kid? Basically none.

[–]throwawayadvice102 7 points8 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Can you please phrase the question to be a little more confusing? I'm almost getting it.

[–]TheOffice_Account 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

lmao

[–]_Duriel_1000_ 4 points5 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

men cheat more?? Which men cheat more? The men that have women throwing themselves at him? Or the average man who doesnt have women throwing themselves at him?

[–]kokorwqac[S] 2 points3 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

normal men, if you get out of blackpill spaces you'd realize most men aren't total incels and even then most can at least pay for some whore.

[–]_Duriel_1000_ 0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy Link

you are saying that "normal" men cheat on their girlfriends by going out and paying for whores more than women cheat?

[–]kokorwqac[S] 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

most men aren't total incels in the first place.

[–]_Duriel_1000_ 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

most men aren't total incels in the first place.

Who said they were?

[–]Admirable_Bee_8714 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

90% of men don't have hordes of women throwing themselves at them.

[–]Swapsta 5 points6 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Settling isn't primarily about being cheated on, it's about being considered a downgrade by the woman, and thus you being used to help raise a kid. They fear being "loved" only for their utility and not something deeper like a genuine emotional connection.

Cucking usually refers to aware and agreed upon cucks in relationships(open relationships mostly) and not those that got cheated and were unaware.

[–]Admirable_Bee_8714 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Settling for a man is being used as a wallet and as a work horse.

[–]KirthWGersen 4 points5 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

Who do these men cheat with if they cheat more? Are there so many single women desperate to get with taken men?

I think it more likely that men ADMIT to cheating more to researchers.

[–]Admirable_Bee_8714 0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy Link

80% of the women only ever see the top 10% of men. So yes, all these women are fucking the same group of guys while the rest of the male population is invisible to them. Of course they complain that the guys on top don't settle for them and why should they when they have a different woman on tap for every night of the week?

[–]KirthWGersen 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

If that were true, it would be a very different world.

Women don't go for the top guys. They go for the best options they have. Which, very often, means very average guys.

[–]Admirable_Bee_8714 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Actually women exclusively go for the top guys. They get dicked down by those men, what they don't get is the relationship they want so they then settle for the average guy and turn his life into a living hell. The modern day western woman is toxic to any mans health.

[–]KirthWGersen 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I'm not one of the top guys on any metric.

And yet, I have no problem meeting women I really like and having sex with them. Nor do any of my friends, nor have any of them in the past 4 decades. Being confident, laid back, pleasant, entertaining and habitually drunk goes a long way...

Modern Western women are really easy to meet, get to know and have sex and relationships with. There are always a few bitches with a bad attitude: but we wouldn't want to be with them anyway.

If you find it is not so, you need to examine what you bring to the table.

[–]no_bling_just_dingWhitePill (self aware MSTOW) 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

well part of it is that the things men seek are harder to secure

[–]IHateNormis 1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Men cheat more because the men can get regular female attention do so disproportionately. Most men are not attractive to females and cannot cheat even if they wanted to

[–]kokorwqac[S] 2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

even the ugliest guy can cheat with an escort, most normies can also cheat, being total incel is a minority. but even if what you said is true, this implies men would cheat even more if they got attention

[–]IHateNormis 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Escorts are not available everywhere. No, it doesn’t mean that men would cheat if they could it just means that most men cannot

[–]no_bling_just_dingWhitePill (self aware MSTOW) 1 point2 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

the stat is self reported. there are plenty of yellow journalism articles rationalizing that women dislike monogamy more than men & women would be less willing to admit to bad sexual habits than men

[–]kokorwqac[S] 2 points3 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

men also lie, women disliking monogamy more than men is just blackpill junkscience, sociology is broscience altogether.

[–]no_bling_just_dingWhitePill (self aware MSTOW) 1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

men also lie

yes i'm aware i have said multiple times before that men aren't more moral than women they just don't lie in the same manner because they are subject to other incentives

is just blackpill junkscience

i didn't say blackpillers came up with it (1), it's journalists (2) and feminists (3) (4)

a lot of what you call black or redpill is just applying what we learn from what feminists say. only difference is a blackpiller might say "women dont like monogamy and thats a bad thing for me", feminists might say "women like open relationships and it's good for us".

[–]kokorwqac[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

feminism is a modern concept enforced by ones in power, not something naturally existing

blackpillers one mistake is mistaking cultural power for biology

[–]no_bling_just_dingWhitePill (self aware MSTOW) 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

feminism is the most obvious modern manifestation of gynocentrism out of multiple others

gynocentrism is a result of reproductive outcomes

[–]Drive-By-CuckersWhitePill 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

sociology is a somewhat useful science it’s just misused constantly, it’s not really meant to give you insight into people’s everyday thinking, that would be psychology, which is incredibly useful

Sociology is the study of how the structure and organization of whole societies changes over time

[–]MasonSub41 points [recovered] (3 children) | Copy Link

Do woman fear getting cucked by their husbands? First time I'm hearing about this

[–]kokorwqac[S] 1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

i'm saying men fear it more despite them also doing it more, read post properly.

[–]bluingmyself 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

1. your failure to separate men who do it and men who fear it is showing. It's like saying women do slutty things and then fear being objectified and being used for sex.

2. even speaking for the men who do both (do it and fear it) what's wrong with that? It's not hypocritical if that's what you're assuming. Again, it's like saying women doing slutty things and then fearing being used for sex. You can be both. In fact smart people often are. They take advantage where they can, and not get taken advantage of where then can help it. It's the dumb people who only ever get taken advantage of that cry foul.

[–]shreyastalpade 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

In the modern gynocentric society it's highly unlikely that something will show women in bad light.

[–]Drive-By-CuckersWhitePill 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Actually statistically men are only more likely to cheat after around 30, when people are younger than that, women cheat more often than men

Basically for men, the worry is that your wife settled for you and would rather have been with someone else but now wants stability, whereas for women, the worry is that your husband leaves or cheats as you both age

[–]kokorwqac[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

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