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X-post: I paid a girl $7,000 every month to live with me and be my gf

August 28, 2022
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Crosspost "i paid a girl $7,000 every month to live with me and be my gf" from /r/TrueOffMyChest:

our agreement just ended last week when she wanted to go back to college and it lasted for 5 months but the countless post nut clarities just hit now. god damnit, i need to tell someone at least and most people i know irl will mock me.

the girl was an online friend who dropped out of college and wanted to get back on her feet. she kept on making suggestions that she wanted to leave her family house but had no money and she couldn't trust the craigslist ads. until she straight up made me an offer. i think she knew i had a crush on her and i just couldn't say no. i was a 29 year old virgin at the time and i'm not gonna bore you with the reocurring themes of self deprecation in this context but i guess you get the gist. it was the first time i had the chance to get with a girl i liked and i make a lot of money so i thought why not?

i'm ngl, i really did enjoy every second i spent with her but alas, all good things must come to an end. we said our goodbyes last week and i'm alone again


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Title X-post: I paid a girl $7,000 every month to live with me and be my gf
Author TriggurWarning
Upvotes 8
Comments 74
Date August 28, 2022 9:54 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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[–]BoogersAndSugar 12 points13 points  (7 children) | Copy Link

Mark my words, we're gonna start seeing a LOT more of this shit over the coming years.

[–]RatDontPanicAverage Unfrustrated Chump 10 points11 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

Going to see? Dude that's how tradcon relationships have always worked lol

[–]shreyastalpade 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

What are tradcon relationships?

[–]mcove97NeutralPill 4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Traditionally conservative relationships.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Not really wrong if you think about it. Married pussy or relationship pussy is the most expensive pussy you will ever have.

[–]TriggurWarning[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I agree.

[–]thesloppierthebetter 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I agree

[–]250umdfail 4 points5 points  (11 children) | Copy Link

This is actually a good deal for the guy. Lots of men are in marriages where they're the sole earner. 7k isn't even that much for a trophy wife. At least she didn't leave with half his assets.

Happens far more common. This girl I was dating before the pandemic, lost her job, and couldn't pay her rent. A week later she had an offer to move in with a guy from work, rent free. And of course she takes up the offer.

[–]TriggurWarning[S] 6 points7 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

And a lot of those marriages are in a 'dead bedroom' state anyway. Imagine literally paying for a wife that never fucks you and will steal half your shit if you leave. But some people think this situation is more of a joke than that.

[–]thesloppierthebetter 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

That's right dead fish, you hit the nail on the head if she ain't getting paid she refers to it as just another chore.

[–]RatDontPanicAverage Unfrustrated Chump 2 points3 points  (8 children) | Copy Link

What a motherfucking simp.

No woman would ever do that for a man.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (5 children) | Copy Link

I doubt that statement

[–]RatDontPanicAverage Unfrustrated Chump 0 points1 point  (4 children) | Copy Link

Find one that ever did.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy Link

In regards to our humanely natural habits it's highly unlikely, but I know of at least one case where a rich woman married a poor man. It happened between the year 600 and 800.

[–]RatDontPanicAverage Unfrustrated Chump 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Well rich women do occasionally marry poor men, but this is way different. This idiot simp paid $7000 a month for a woman just to pretend to be his girlfriend.

[–]no_bling_just_dingself-aware MSTOW // أشهد أن لا حبة إلا الحبة السوداء 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

over for sunnacels

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

?

[–]NotARussianBot1984 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Saw it for my Chad friend, he was broke and his uni educated gf had him move in and she paid for everything, surprisingly she hot too, way too good for Chad, she did leave him eventually. Just be hot enough.

[–]RatDontPanicAverage Unfrustrated Chump 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

That's not just chad it's ultragigachad.

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

When I was a young guy I knew this girl who had a "generous older boyfriend". I asked her straight-out if she thought he was attractive. She said she thought he was, but just too old, if he was younger she would date him normally.

One of the women I used to see was a rich man's mistress, while I was her fun guy. She was "the girl next door", but she was very intelligent and charismatic and definitely knew how to blow up a man's ego. My impression is these moneyed guys know and just don't care if they are entertaining "chad" on the side.

[–]TriggurWarning[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Makes a lot of sense from their perspective. They're enjoying her youth. If you have the money you just buy the ass you want.

[–]no_bling_just_dingself-aware MSTOW // أشهد أن لا حبة إلا الحبة السوداء 4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

he described marriage

[–]Glad-Discount-4761 3 points4 points  (14 children) | Copy Link

Wow.I heard this is kind of normal in Japan where you can rent gf

[–]Antisocial_NihilistRedPill 3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yes, this is basically just to rent her time though during the day to go out with you on dates and stuff.

Sex is off the table. You're just paying a few hundred dollars a day for a companion.

[–]TriggurWarning[S] 1 point2 points  (9 children) | Copy Link

Source?

[–]Glad-Discount-4761 0 points1 point  (8 children) | Copy Link

I actually heard it from YouTube.There are lot vlogs about renting gf.

https://youtu.be/L2vU_N3mNwM

[–]you-arent-reading-it1 points [recovered] (7 children) | Copy Link

[–]Antisocial_NihilistRedPill 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Yep, I've been saying this for years. If you want to see where the United States and other western countries are heading in the next decade, just look at countries like Japan, China, or South Korea.

A lot of the people over on PPD or AskFeminists would laugh at you and think you're absurd for thinking these services would ever be a mainstream thing. But then you can just show them the shit that's happening in Japan and it usually shuts them up.

Like 41% of Japanese millennial men identify as being involuntarily celibate. Many young men are committing suicide and dropping out of society in other ways like becoming a hikkokomori in the tune of millions.

It's kind of absurd to think that mass male loneliness will have zero consequences.

[–]Glad-Discount-4761 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Wow,this may works for socially awkward people

[–]you-arent-reading-it 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah but I would be glad if they offered a discount 🙂

[–]Antisocial_NihilistRedPill 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

And I'm saying this as someone who lived in Japan for 3 years, by the way.

I've seen this shit with my own eyes.

[–]you-arent-reading-it1 points [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link

OH, shit.

Was it traumatizing, funny, or just culturally shocking?

[–]Antisocial_NihilistRedPill 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

There was lots of fun shit to do in Japan, to be honest. The night life and culture are great.

But there is a darker underbelly of Japanese culture, and that is male loneliness. The government tries hard to cover it up, but if you just walk around the city for any amount of time you can see symptoms of it seeping out through the seems.

I moved there in a really radical bid to try and "start over", and because I myself am half Japanese and know the language (from my mom). My dad was a white foreigner in Japan and that's how they met. My mom already had a visa to come to US so it was easy for them to make the move.

https://youtu.be/SORthIsoLP0

[–]TryLambda 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

It’s cheaper to rent, and you can upgrade every few years, better ROI

[–]TriggurWarning[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Avoid the cost of depreciation too.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah, years ago there was a spate of articles about how common "casual prostitution" was in Japan. And then there was a bunch of articles about "hikikomori", and like nobody ever connected the two things.

[–]BumblingBeta 4 points5 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

Incredibly sad thing to do, and yes I am judging. Spending thousands to get someone to pretend to like you. Even if I was worth a billion dollars, I would never want to give that sort of money (or indeed any money at all) to some ungrateful woman.

I think he's kidding himself when he said "I really did enjoy every second I spent with her". He has to tell himself that otherwise he'd fall into deep depression, on top of the depression he's already got of being alone.

[–]TriggurWarning[S] 2 points3 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

When you're lonely any companionship is better than none, even if on some level the interaction is superficial and shallow.

[–]BumblingBeta 1 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

I personally could never do that. Each to their own, but this is why women have such high standards, when you've got sad dudes like this paying a fortune just to pay someone to pretend to like him.

[–]TriggurWarning[S] 1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Sad dudes with money and still can't find a girlfriend. I agree.

[–]BumblingBeta 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Yes, we should call them fucking losers because that's what they are. Too many people are afraid to hurt people's feelings, but people need to call it as they see it. That way these men might change their behavior and women's entitlement might go down. No one should be able to earn thousands of dollars just to hang around someone and pretend to like them for a bit, what a joke.

[–]TriggurWarning[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I understand where you're coming from, but surely you must know it'll never happen. The only people you're allowed to make fun of in our degenerated society is straight white males. So while this guy may be a loser in a very real sense, I don't think piling on straight white males even more will produce anything of value to anyone. Women's entitlement is sky-high and will stay that way for the foreseeable future.

[–]mugiwaranogoofy1 points [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link

My own thoughts on the matter: I think he's an idiot with more money than sense (and self-worth).

Personal feelings and judgement aside, I don't have much of anything to say about this. It's his life, his money, and if they were comfortable with the arrangement... 🤷🏻‍♂️fair enough. Fact that she wanted to call it off and he accepted without any push-back, no hard feelings, no manipulation, no shady shit is good too.

[–]TriggurWarning[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Maybe he is an idiot, but I've seen some married life situations that are far more absurd than this.

[–]EulenWatcher1 points [recovered] (8 children) | Copy Link

That's rather depressing tbh, but he didn't give much details, so it's hard to speculate. I'd guess he could actually use this time to get better with socializing and all, he could ask her to be honest with him about his issues and get better at flirting and even sex.

But overall I'm against selling sex. I feel it's degrading and if you're ready to have sex with someone who only tolerate you for money, that's...not a good thing.

[–]no_bling_just_dingself-aware MSTOW // أشهد أن لا حبة إلا الحبة السوداء 0 points1 point  (7 children) | Copy Link

if you're ready to have sex with someone who only tolerate you for money, that's...not a good thing.

my parents in a nutshell

[–]EulenWatcher1 points [recovered] (6 children) | Copy Link

What?

[–]no_bling_just_dingself-aware MSTOW // أشهد أن لا حبة إلا الحبة السوداء 0 points1 point  (5 children) | Copy Link

happy cake day and also yes that is basically my parents now nearing 60 and yesterday i just heard my mom compare my father to pedophiles and gay people (she is an arch-tradcon religious hardcore feminist so she thinks gay people are a punishment from god)

[–]EulenWatcher1 points [recovered] (4 children) | Copy Link

Thanks. And wow, that's a weird combination. I'm not sure what it has to do with my comment though?

[–]no_bling_just_dingself-aware MSTOW // أشهد أن لا حبة إلا الحبة السوداء 0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy Link

weird combination

dang i wouldve said that most tradcon women are just feminists with korans (or bibles). muslim girls ive seen here all know by heart the feminist talking points of their western counterparts, probably better than the verses of their scripture

what it has to do

im pointing out that even ordinary "tradcon" marriages like that of my parents come down to being stuck together because the man got dinero and the woman has ovaries

[–]EulenWatcher1 points [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link

What do they have in common?

I still have no idea what you're talking about tbh. Do you think your mother doesn't want to have sex with your father, but tolerates it?

[–]no_bling_just_dingself-aware MSTOW // أشهد أن لا حبة إلا الحبة السوداء 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

they havent had sex in more than 10 years the only reason she tolerates being under the same roof as him anymore is for the money he shoves at her

same with x-posted op here who got a woman that wouldnt look twice at him to stay with his virginal bones for money that would make her a top 0.1% earner where im from

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Where does he even find 7.000$ per month? Wtf?

[–]shreyastalpade 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

The sad part is some sections of the society will try to defend this type of behavior.

[–]TriggurWarning[S] 2 points3 points  (16 children) | Copy Link

A lot of normies would probably take a giant shit on this guy (like his real-life friends he's afraid to admit this to), but honestly I don't see anything wrong with this at all. I genuinely feel like there is a monetary component to relationships that is inescapable. Sure, some people genuinely enjoy the company of other people, but without money it's like eating sand. Men always pay for it to some degree, and we often lie to ourselves about how much that component really matters. And then often get baited into a dead bedroom situation on top of that (ouch!).

Maybe this guy has the right idea though (assuming you can afford it). It's honestly not a bad play, it's just society obviously would frown on this to a large extent, so he feels the need to hide the truth. But really he shouldn't be ashamed here IMHO. He got what he wanted, and so did she. Both people are happy, it's just he's back to square one now looking for another girl (but it's fixable). The comments in the thread are especially funny too.

Someone's welcome to CMV if they'd like to of course.

[–]TryLambda 7 points8 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

When only fans is now considered a normal and legitimate way of earning a living…this situation is not that far away from it

[–]TriggurWarning[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

The girl selling farts is what did it for me. If there are men out there so lonely they are willing to pay just for the sniff of someone's disgusting asshole, nobody should be shitting on another human being for the act of paying for companionship.

[–]you-arent-reading-it1 points [recovered] (9 children) | Copy Link

You used an extreme example, but I overall agree with you. But the other commenter is right too. Doing something like that would make men ashamed by that. Society would judge them and it's tough.

[–]TriggurWarning[S] 0 points1 point  (8 children) | Copy Link

It would be easy to just lie to family and friends and call it a real relationship. If I was rich I wouldn't let society's outdated moral frameworks impede doing what I want to do. They can stick their judgment up their ass as far as I'm concerned.

[–]you-arent-reading-it1 points [recovered] (7 children) | Copy Link

If I was rich

If you're were rich you would rarely need to pay that amount of money to get a girl.

It would be easy to just lie

I already lie with women. If you pose with a tesla model 1 on tinder you get doubles of the matches. hereis the experiment/study.

[–]TriggurWarning[S] 2 points3 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

If you're were rich you would rarely need to pay that amount of money to get a girl.

I understand that. This guy overpaid by a lot.

Good study though.

[–]you-arent-reading-it1 points [recovered] (4 children) | Copy Link

I find it very valid that for men in order tog get girls they always need to pay to a degree.

[–]TriggurWarning[S] 2 points3 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

The only question in my mind is how much money matters, and I feel like many people pretend it doesn't though.

[–]you-arent-reading-it1 points [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link

and I feel like many people pretend it doesn't though.

And they are dumb.

[–]TriggurWarning[S] 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I don't know, I feel like humanity's capacity for self-delusion is perhaps one of our best qualities. Religion is bullshit too of course, but it gives people a lot of hope and joy. It seems like it would be nice to have faith in something. It's impossible for me of course, but 'ignorance is bliss' seems to apply in more ways than one in life.

[–]you-arent-reading-it 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Religion is bullshit too of course

I have to agree with this

It seems like it would be nice to have faith in something

No. You are using logic. You look at that as the same satisfaction you achieve by using logic to draw conclusions. It's not. It's not even that satisfying. It's more like a mental illness. You need to look at it as something that some people really NEED otherwise they would kill themselves. It's not even that simple. Most of all the cases in which you acquire a belief/religion later on in life are like that. You know what I think.

On the other hand, I think you can have advantages to grow in a family with a specific strong belief/religion. But it needs to be a healthy context.

Yes there are some advantages and some of them can be very good. I'm sure about that.

It's impossible for me of course

Good for you. Not everyone has that gift from God. /s

[–]NotARussianBot1984 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Tesla vs cash payout, long run the paying cash is cheaper lol.

And a lot less headaches

[–]SmarmyPapsmears 1 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

I'd be ashamed lol

[–]TriggurWarning[S] 1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Learn to give less fucks bro, then there is no shame. It's all in your head and what other people are pushing on you (often just to control your behavior by the way). It's all bullshit, a shadow on the wall. Do what you want with your life.

[–]SmarmyPapsmears 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I don't want to buy a person's affection. It would kill my boner.

[–]TriggurWarning[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

This assumes love actually exists, does it? Not so sure. You can also just pretend she does have affection.

[–]anonymous-platypus1 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

This is just traditional old fashioned marriage lol! Men truly forgot that getting married was a status symbol. You wanted a wife, you paid for one. But at the same time, if she agreed and you lose all joke money, it’s her fault she’s in that position because she married you.

[–]BlackPillPusher 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

So ugh, basically marriage?

[–]TriggurWarning[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yes

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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