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Young guys struggling to get laid should just get with older women

September 15, 2022

I constantly see guys on here that are struggling with dating so as someone that had the same issue I figure I'll share how I managed to solve that problem. The sad truth is that if you're a young guy today that doesn't have much money and is more towards the beta side, girls today just don't want you. Most guys just can't compete with the alphas or the old guys with money and status.

While you might get lucky here and there you are mostly just wasting your time. What you should realize is that there are tons of older women that are single, lonely and desperate. Many of those women were just like the younger girls today. They thought they were too good for everyone and they wanted to have as much "fun" as possible and before they knew it time just simply ran out for them.

Those women really want the older HVM but can no longer get them. Many of them simply can't handle not having the SMV advantage anymore. Many older women still have needs. Since they can't get the HVM they want they simply settle for a younger guy with stamina that is just happy to get laid. Not to mention that younger guys are so desperate that to them these older women have a high SMV because they are female and attainable.

When I was younger and was broke, under 6 feet, and more towards the beta side, I had trouble myself. The younger girls that I really wanted were more of a waste of time then anything. You try and try just to see them be picked up by an older guy with a nice car.

So I just started dealing with older women. They weren't exactly what I wanted but I was getting laid at least. I also was able to get hotter women then I could have gotten with younger girls. I had an older rich woman that used to take me out and buy me things. I had one woman with big tits. I even had a very pretty older woman with a huge ass and thick thighs. She could have easily been an IG model if she was younger. There was no way I could have gotten a younger girl with all that.

So I ask you younger guys why are you wasting your time with younger girls that don't want you when you could be "dating" an older woman? Besides its just for now. After you manage to build up enough status you can then circle back and only date younger girls. One advantage you have as a man is that you have more time. So you can do that.

Just some bad things I think I should warn you about. These older women really want an older HVM and they're only settling for you. In fact I think that you are just a pawn which she's hopelessly trying to use to make the HVM jealous. However since it's just about sex you shouldn't care too much.

They also try to act as if they're better than you because they're older. They constantly say things like "you're still a kid" and whatnot. Also they really just want to use you to feel like they stills got it. Younger guys are good for that because they are desperate and are just happy to be getting laid.

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Title Young guys struggling to get laid should just get with older women
Author MAGA-Latino
Upvotes 5
Comments 46
Date September 15, 2022 5:04 PM UTC (2 months ago)
Subreddit /r/AllPillDebate
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/AllPillDebate/young-guys-struggling-to-get-laid-should-just-get.1139585
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[–]herefortheparty01PurplePill 10 points11 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

Older women don’t want young men.

[–]SaltyGeekyLifter 5 points6 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Broadly speaking I’d agree. There are exceptions but they prove the rule.

[–]herefortheparty01PurplePill 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

The only young men they want are rich sons or top 5% in looks

[–]Wide-Illustrator2906 2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

They actually do but only if they're hot.

[–]Peacesquad 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link


[–]Mitchoppertunity 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

plenty of them do

[–]Wide-Illustrator2906 7 points8 points  (7 children) | Copy Link

This would have worked ten or fifteen years ago (when I did this) but with dating apps being more popular, older women can just swipe on younger top tier men for quick fucks. Why would she deal with a guy who was struggling?

[–]SaltyGeekyLifter 0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy Link

Why would the top tier young guy fuck an older woman?

All the young ones are also available. And every bit as disposable.

[–]Wide-Illustrator2906 1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Same reason I did, incredibly easy no strings attached sex. The easiest lay a guy who's a 7-10 can get will be an older or bigger woman. He can open her sexually and she will be receptive. This can also happen with younger woman but it will require a small amount of game, but if a guy just wants to get the quickest nut possible he'll go with an older and possibly bigger woman.

[–]SaltyGeekyLifter 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I’m reminded of a lyric from the Bloodhound gang: women are like dog poo, hear me through-don’t interrupt. It’s just the older that they get the easier they are to pick up

[–]Wide-Illustrator2906 -1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

😅🤣😂I'm saving this comment.

[–]Mitchoppertunity 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

Same reason a male would deal with a female who’s struggling

[–]Wide-Illustrator2906 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

No woman really struggles to get sex, even if she's disabled, there's still guys out there willing.

[–]Mitchoppertunity 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Sure she does and the guys you’re talking about are simps. Smart men don’t want a woman who is a damn headache.

[–]Historical-System972 11 points12 points  (10 children) | Copy Link

Older women don't want them either.

[–]SaltyGeekyLifter 3 points4 points  (8 children) | Copy Link

Not entirely true. They want the Alpha-adjacent scraps, and the validation that they can still make a young dick hard.

Also some of them think they are fighting the patriarchy somehow, by fucking a younger guy.

[–]Historical-System972 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

What? This is word salad.

[–]SaltyGeekyLifter 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

lol. Take it one word at a time...

[–]RedditsOlderBrah 2 points3 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

Are you aware you're writing first person cougar fanfic in reddit comments sections in order to justify the things you think about having sex with cougars?

[–]SaltyGeekyLifter -2 points-1 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

🤣 at my age, a cougar-equivalent is likely to have a walking stick and a replacement hip. Try again.

[–]RedditsOlderBrah 2 points3 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

try what again?

[–]Mitchoppertunity 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

They’re closing their options then

[–]RatDontPanicAverage Unfrustrated Chump 4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Younger girls and women had zero appeal to me even when I was a teenager. I dated girls in my age group back then because that's what there was. When I got into college I started dating women in their late 20s and up whenever I could. I was always in a "get my shit together" mode from adolescence and that bubbleheaded bullshit was caustic to me. Maturity and worldly understanding attracted me more than beauty. But I was more into LTRs than casual sex. YMMV.

[–]Antisocial_NihilistRedPill 5 points6 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Dude holy shit...

I'm not even kidding you, last year I got turned down by a 55 year old woman (I'm 34).

They don't want us either, and in fact they even have sort of a "cult following" of attractive men on dating apps who are cougar hunters and like sleeping around with older women.

This is only 1 experience mind you, so maybe I'd have success if I kept trying with older women. She have some signals she might be interested, but after talking for a little while she brushed me off.

[–]Glad-Discount-4761 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

You are 34 .Is it hard to even attract 30+ woman?

[–]warramite 3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Jaded women have higher standards and much worse baggage (kids, trauma etc..)

[–]RedditsOlderBrah 5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

The children of cougars are generally adults.

the trauma was likely sustained in their younger years so by that age they generally have addressed it.

unfortunately that just means there's an even greater chance they won't have sex with you even if you try.

[–]jasonology09 6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Lol... if you can't get with younger women or those in your age group, what makes you think you'll be able to pull hot, older ones? Older women are even more discerning.

For younger women, just being attractive is 75% of the game. Older women aren't so easily swayed. You need to be much more interesting to seriously catch their attention. You might stumble upon a few who are just looking to get laid, but those are few and far between, and more than likely not attractive, even for their age group.

[–]Glad-Discount-4761 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Older women doesn't immediately get impressed.If they got hormone going on,then you may have a chance or just find unsatisfied old woman whose husband don't give her sex.

By the way, really you guys even still think about hitting older women even husband don't do this to his aged wife!

[–]SwimmingTheme3736 2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

I’m 40 so I’m an older woman, I can honestly say I do not want to fuck a man that could be my son. The youngest I would go is 35, I. The same way the oldest I would go is 45.

[–]fnonpm 2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

The average age in the US is 38.1 years old and it will probably get worse

It makes sense numbers wise for younger men to pursue older lovers

[–]SwimmingTheme3736 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

They can try

[–]allahrubarakh 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yes good advice

[–]Admirable_Bee_8714 2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Tom Leykis used to recommend this to young guys. In your 20's the women your age don't want you. So go for the older broads. Treat it just as a pitcher warms up in the bullpen while you work on your career and stack your paper. Once you attain a degree of success go find the hottie in her 20's and enjoy life. Remember, the chick in your Psych 101 class isn't the one you want, it's her daughter you should be dating in your 30's and she is legal.

[–]MAGA-Latino[S] 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Bro it works. It worked like a charm for me. The females on here are lying. Older women are easy and desperate.

It might not be what you want but at least you can get some in the meantime.

[–]Admirable_Bee_8714 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Exactly, a man in the middle of a dessert dying of thirst isn't going to give a fuck that the water he is drinking isn't Evian.

[–]IHateNormis 2 points3 points  (9 children) | Copy Link

Females do not change as they get older

[–]RedditsOlderBrah 0 points1 point  (7 children) | Copy Link

What has scared you so much that you prefer to embarrass yourself by publicly saying this shit rather than confront it?

[–]IHateNormis 3 points4 points  (6 children) | Copy Link

I am confronting a fact by stating it

[–]RedditsOlderBrah 0 points1 point  (5 children) | Copy Link

lol. no my friend. women are human beings. almost identical to yourself except for a different hormone wash in the endocrine system. we all change. trying to deny that is called 'magical thinking'. small children do it in an infantile attempt to change reality. you're trying to speak it into existence. 5 year olds do this.

[–]IHateNormis 2 points3 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

Yeah no, they are not almost identical to me. They are almost identical to each other

[–]Mitchoppertunity 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Sure they do. They don’t wet their pants anymore lol.

[–]Bdog5k 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link


[–]lostwanderer28 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Maybe it is hard to believe but I was always into older women, into mature women, there was never any sort of sexual attraction between me and an older women though.

[–]Glad-Discount-4761 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

If there were never any sexual attraction,how were you into older women or was it during your early 20s phase?

[–]Taipanshimshon 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

This is dumb.

I have never heard of a man who wants to fuck women his dick doesn't want. Age. Race. Weight. Whatever.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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