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Attempt to defend a woman who tried to trap and rape a guy because he rejected her

April 13, 2022
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Title Attempt to defend a woman who tried to trap and rape a guy because he rejected her
Author ExMuzzy
Upvotes 355
Comments 17
Date April 13, 2022 2:23 AM UTC (9 months ago)
Subreddit /r/AntiFeminists
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[–]Large-Victory 32 points33 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Well now if it was a man ohh boi and got reported to the authorities he is fucked up. Feminism on the one hand caused strict consensual practices and on the other hand they also want so much liberty with sex. You can't always have it in the both the ways.

[–]No_Philosopher3093 18 points19 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Nice rebuttal used her same logic back on here

[–]Loli_Innkeeper 14 points15 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

If mental gymnastics was an olympic sport she's win a gold medal. Good lord.

[–]Unlucky_Desk_5468 5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Can I get second place?

[–]functionalsociopathy 50 points51 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

I don't know the full context so I'm going to go with the information provided.

I think the underlying issue is the level of overreaction to anything sexual (caused primarily by feminism). She's not defending the woman's behavior any further than acknowledging that after a while rejection can take its toll on someone's mind and cause them to freak out. She condemned the action as unacceptable and labeled it "rape and harassment" territory.

That being said, it's more likely that the woman who blocked the guy from leaving just felt entitled to a sexual experience. Most girls do not take rejection well due to the copious amounts of undue praise and unearned validation they receive growing up.

[–]SpongeBrainz 17 points18 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

I agree with this statement. I've met other women who don't take rejection so well, especially after they have slept with the man already, but at the same time I'm like "why did you sleep with him in the first place, if he ain't interested?" It beats me.

I had a rejection once from a man who I had slept with (plus he was a friend before that), to be fair, he did make it out that we were going to end up in a relationship, I actually didn't want to sleep with him straight away and I loved his personality and fell in love with him, it sucked. He was still caught with ex girlfriend (she messed him up real bad) that I didn't know about until after I found out I was just a rebound.

It was pretty heart breaking and I felt incredibly stupid giving myself away to him after the first night staying with him. Afterwards, I just ignored him and blocked him. Kept telling myself "not all men are like this and hello, how stupid was I giving myself up so easily for the first time?" Never did that again and learnt my lesson. I would never accuse it as "rape" or "harrassment" it was also my fault for giving in so easily and I hold myself as accountable for my mistake.

[–]SpongeBrainz 11 points12 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

What sucked the most, is that I was there 24/7 for him and he even complimented me on how much I was there for him compared to his ex girlfriends and said I would make a brilliant wife...

Honestly, I am surprised with myself I didn't turn out to be like those awful feminists and accuse him of something false.

[–]akihonj 3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

That's really messed up and the onus was on him to stay out of anything until he got himself sorted and wasn't going to repeat damaging cycles.

[–]notalistener 7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Note that you said and she wrote it AFTER. That’s what’s troubling here. She was justifying to a degree, rather than providing insight, hence her prioritizing the justification of the actions FIRST, then denying them in a much, much more condensed manner. Thus, leaving the manipulative impression that those things need even be considered in the matter. The “why” someone chose to rape someone is never relevant. It’s especially irrelevant to justify a gender’s behavior in such a context by validating the perpetrator of the crimes feelings. Those things are irrelevant. It’s as if she providing words of caution to men that they shouldn’t expect a woman to be calm and collected (as they expect from us) in a rejection and we otherwise need to be warned to accept and expect a horrible outcome should we choose to abstain from any woman.

All of that is distasteful IMO

[–]Wubalubadubdubbiatch 4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

And for that very reason I reject girls and ignore their signs just to fuck with them

[–]Puzzleheaded-Heat174 7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

He was spot on

[–][deleted] 10 points11 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Girl here!

Yeah. We know.

[–]Made-of-magic- 4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I wonder if that girl is always this stupid or she was just making a special effort that day.

She was defending the rapist.

[–]darklightning00 8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Some women these days are like a decoration made of glass totally useless and easy to break ... Can't cook can't clean and if you talk to her nicely ,hour later you're gonna find her crying in the corner of the house "how could you do this to me.. You hurt my feelings".

[–]Idesmi 3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

She condemned the action, not attempted to defend it.

The comment you upvoted is overreacting.

She did not even summon a double standard, instead she mentioned that women react badly to rejection a lot.

Come on, let's not push away people who are on our side.

[–]Mellow_Maniac -1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I think that person underreacted to how awful sexual assault is, but you guys have overreacted to that underreaction. Trying to reason for people who sexually assault can be hurtful and come at the wrong time, but it's not inherently wrong. In fact it's a good and fair thing to consider. Why do people act the way they do? Can we gain more knowledge? Speculation isn't the best method but it's not outright useless.

[–]NattyNatalie3195 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

im. sorry. what

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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