I wonder if the original idea of Feminism has changed at all.

It is not. Women want superiority over men. They will gaslight, lie, cheat, and manipulate for that superiority. They were never unequal they just had a different role in life in relation to male and female relationships. The feminist end goal is to destroy the family and men. It is sad when you find quotes from older feminists stating that is the goal. Then read “The Manipulated Man” by Esther Vilar and it will open your eyes to the hypocrisy, double standards, and lies. It is world shattering because it is not what you are taught growing up. Once the blinders come off and you see things for what they are you tend to be more aware of the bullshit. Only you choose for yourself to get involved with the bullshit or avoid the bullshit. Here is the quote below;

The nuclear family must be destroyed, and people must find better ways of living together.... Whatever its ultimate meaning, the break-up of families now is an objectively revolutionary process.... No woman should have to deny herself any opportunities because of her special responsibilities to her children... Families will be finally destroyed only when a revolutionary social and economic organization permits people's needs for love and security to be met in ways that do not impose divisions of labor, or any external roles, at all.

Linda Gordon

This kind of thinking and philosophy will destroy society and it is a society that already hates men. So when men have left because of this, why would men not let it burn? Why save what hates you?