I have seen many male 'feminists' justify the notion that feminism would be good for them by claiming that patriarchal norms somehow harms males such as by having them not be willing to talk to a psychiatrist about being suicidal.

Of course talking openly about being suicidal to a therapist/psychiatrist can end very badly for you, the mental health industry has a long history of abusing and harming their patients/victims while claiming "it's for their own good".

https://vintologi.com/threads/psychiatry.737/

https://vintologi.com/threads/psychiatry-horror-stories.267

In reality not disclosing personal issues you have can be required in order to survive in a hostile society, animals in nature often hide their injuries since otherwise predators will target them knowing they are easy prey.

There is a very big push to get people into therapy but the scientific evidence in favor of it is still very lacking, it's unlikely to be much if any better than placebo.

When someone is told online to "seek help" they usually dislike the person they tell that too indicating that they do not actually think they would be help in the first place if they were to be fooling enough to listen to this. It often comes from a wish to make people people conform to society rather than a genuine wish to help them.