Having gender based expectation is sexist, just like men are encouraged and expected to do what is traditionally female role. women should stop expecting men to do the first move, pay the dates and be the provider .. women should do 50% of what is traditionally male role.

But apparently a lot women are not happy about that, you always find so called strong and independent women (both left and right wing) complaining about men not being "real men" and why no one approach them ! aren't you strong women ? approach the men you like stop waiting them to do it.

Tomi Lahren who is a conservative pundit posted a video titeled "PSA for Boyish Men" whining aboout men not being "real men" !

in the comment she said "It appears to me the “men” getting triggered by this video are likely not “men” at all. If you were, you’d know this doesn’t apply to you and you’d laugh at all the wussy boys that don’t know how to grow up and act right. I said what I said."

And in another comment " I’m just sick of soft men who don’t know how to act right"

Yeah if you don't act exactly how women want you to act you are not "real man" ! f*ck that sh*t.

No one have the right to determine what is real men for you, Paul Elam did a great video on the topic you should watch.