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[–]BDT81 106 points107 points108 points 1 year ago (10 children) | Copy Link
The knowledge that a woman will smack us if we show vulnerability.
[–]skllyskullstyle 21 points22 points23 points 1 year ago (2 children) | Copy Link
True dude. Based on experiance and going through mixed signals, women hate it when men are too little or too much vulnerable. Its like what do you want from us? You cant have it both ways.
[–]throwawaygoodvibess 19 points20 points21 points 1 year ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Be stoic ; you’re cold, a dick, an asshole, apathetic, etc
Be vulnerable ; you’re emotional, weak, fragile, a chick, etc
Sweet!
[–]skllyskullstyle 4 points5 points6 points 1 year ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Irk? Annoying af. Feminist would say " oh thats toxic masculinity " or " patriarchy wants men to do that". Its like....why?!....explain how thats hurting women? When it comes to flirting some women are the ones that are most likely enforce stuff like that.
[–]babeinthewoods95 1 point2 points3 points 1 year ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Jesus if that’s what your partners have been saying to you no wonder you don’t seem to like women.
[–]Rol9x 1 point2 points3 points 1 year ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Maybe you should try a less friendly look so that nobody will feel invited to smack you, even when you feel like crying. 🙂
[–]Supremequeen003 -1 points0 points1 point 1 year ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That’s false.
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[–]buried_alive0 1 point2 points3 points 1 year ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I haven't, and reading around many others haven't experienced the opposite too.
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[+]Ghosttalker96 -6 points-5 points-4 points 1 year ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Uh, I don't have to?
[–]tharkyllinus 61 points62 points63 points 1 year ago (23 children) | Copy Link
Knowing that your wife will believe you're worthless and weak when you show your distress over life's events.
[+]Ghosttalker96 -9 points-8 points-7 points 1 year ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Don't know about your wife, but my wife is different.
[–]tharkyllinus 20 points21 points22 points 1 year ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It's a good thing if she is supportive and respectful.
[+]P00PMcBUTTS -25 points-24 points-23 points 1 year ago (12 children) | Copy Link
Is this a satire sub? Just came across it, if not then this shit isn't healthy
[–]Bob_spagetti 28 points29 points30 points 1 year ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Not satire at all
[–]tharkyllinus 18 points19 points20 points 1 year ago (10 children) | Copy Link
It isn't healthy .
[+]P00PMcBUTTS -23 points-22 points-21 points 1 year ago (9 children) | Copy Link
I wonder if these guys know this is literally what "toxic masculinity" means and that feminism is trying to combat that? Like these guys are literally on the same side as feminism but are blaming feminism?
[–]buried_alive0 21 points22 points23 points 1 year ago (8 children) | Copy Link
It doesn't matter what feminists say. You can't hide it behind a dictionary definition every time someone criticizes it or is against it. Feminism has actually done nothing for men and, in other occasions, has fought against rights for men. For example: Duluth model related laws.
[–]Educational_Lie1347 4 points5 points6 points 1 year ago (1 child) | Copy Link
They were obviously a feminist
[–]buried_alive0 2 points3 points4 points 1 year ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah, but some are not a competely lost cause. If they tried to understand a bit why we have this unusual opinion of being against feminism, <s>which is supposed to be the greatest movement for equality ever </s>, they'd see feminism is not good at all for men.
[+]P00PMcBUTTS -14 points-13 points-12 points 1 year ago (5 children) | Copy Link
I'm not even going to bother arguing with you, this is so absurd I was convinced it's a satire sub. I've been proved wrong, I'll see myself out.
[–]buried_alive0 15 points16 points17 points 1 year ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That's sad to hear. You're so deep you can't even imagine feminism being wrong. That's cult-like behavior.
[–]Rol9x 10 points11 points12 points 1 year ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Well, time for you to go back to your bubble, don't waste your time in such an absurd place.
[–]Daley--Dubz -1 points0 points1 point 1 year ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I think there are a ton of problems with modern feminism, but you gotta admit telling someone to go back to their bubble from a sub that is one of the most bubbly bubbles I have ever seen is not the strongest point.
So why do YOU waste your time in such a bubbly bubble?
[–]KrustyDanmakuFellow 5 points6 points7 points 1 year ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I like your username
[–]Supremequeen003 0 points1 point2 points 1 year ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Maybe you need a new partner.
[–]tharkyllinus 0 points1 point2 points 1 year ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Id like to believe that if i find my self single after all these years thats the way im going to stay.
[–]selfimmolations 0 points1 point2 points 1 year ago (5 children) | Copy Link
i'm sorry why are y'all marrying bitches y'all hate then . you have a choice to not do that
[–]tharkyllinus 0 points1 point2 points 1 year ago (4 children) | Copy Link
It's kinda like buying a used car .looks good but you may not find out what wrong with it until it's to late with the difference it becomes cheaper to keep her.
[–]selfimmolations 0 points1 point2 points 1 year ago (0 children) | Copy Link
dang . you ain't even wrong either i'm sorry bruh
[–]DucksOnBread 0 points1 point2 points 1 year ago (2 children) | Copy Link
maybe your issue with women is that you see them as used cars instead of people you can talk to and work stuff out with
[–]tharkyllinus 0 points1 point2 points 1 year ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Somethings can be worked through some cannot.
[–]DucksOnBread -1 points0 points1 point 1 year ago (0 children) | Copy Link
try seeking therapy. your view on women is unnatural and frankly disgusting. work on yourself instead of spouting your mysogynistic rhetoric to like-minded creeps on the internet
[–]dependency_injector 33 points34 points35 points 1 year ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Because crying always makes the situation worse
[–][deleted] 25 points26 points27 points 1 year ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Simple answer?... Stoicism (we process that shit internally)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EFkyxzJtiv4
[–]xarexen 5 points6 points7 points 1 year ago (1 child) | Copy Link
>Stoicism
Plato cried. Stoicism involves crying.
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 1 year ago (0 children) | Copy Link
And what's wrong with that? men cry too, we just learn to do it internally and compartmentalize when doing so...
[+]illvstrcte -10 points-9 points-8 points 1 year ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Mans is citing his sources from Youtube.com holy shit
[–]Rol9x 11 points12 points13 points 1 year ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Would it make you less bitter if you see a textbook?
Sellars, John. Stoicism. Chesham: Acumen, 2006. Print. Ancient Philosophies.
Happy now?
[–][deleted] 7 points8 points9 points 1 year ago (0 children) | Copy Link
why thank you... I also go to Wikipedia.com too
I should get a job interneting or something!
[–]Ownedby4Labs 15 points16 points17 points 1 year ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You forget the defense mechanism which starts to kick in as you get older.
There are two phases to this beginning with the IDGAF phase. Your ability to Give a Fuck shrinks as you reach your mid 40’s increasing exponentially as you mid 50s approach.
Should you make it to the pinnacle of the IDGAF phase, you may then start in on the masters course. It is at this point that your advanced ability to not give a fuck turns aerial, and transforms from IDGAF to IDGAFF. It is here where the pinnacle of IDGAF is given a special designation.
Curmudgeon.
[–]BrokeMacMountain 5 points6 points7 points 1 year ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Aint that the truth!
[–]xarexen 3 points4 points5 points 1 year ago (0 children) | Copy Link
'I don't get it, why do men go from being treated like unfeeling robots, but then suddenly they go berserk like unfeeling robots from every science fiction movie ever.'
[–]SaintLogic 2 points3 points4 points 1 year ago (1 child) | Copy Link
It is quite simple.
It is far Easter and bearable to suffer in silence then to give a woman information that they will turn into a weapon against us.
Well I cry in private, never in front of someone.
[–]Mr_Bluebird_VA 4 points5 points6 points 1 year ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I just cry when I need to.
[–]dw87190 2 points3 points4 points 1 year ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Knowing that we'll be the butt of her girls' night and group chat mockery, as well as be a more likely target for abuse if a woman sees us, are a good motivator to internalise
[–]Rol9x 1 point2 points3 points 1 year ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
Let's just say that every person is different and some people choose to cry in front of others, while others prefer to be more discreet with their emotions. I also prefer to pee or to have sex without anyone watching. I don't need to express my emotions to make anyone happy that I act as their ideology recommends. Is this toxic masculinity? Why would I give a fuck about what others think about me? It's funny how some stupid idiots just came up with their stupid rules: oh, you need to be like that, or you need to do that or... I do whatever I want. Their rules are not my rules.
[–]Darkwolf90 0 points1 point2 points 1 year ago (0 children) | Copy Link
We feel, respond with thought and act. Crying solves nothing unless you have too much salt, water in your body or have debris in your eye.
[–]Several_Sea7127 0 points1 point2 points 1 year ago* (5 children) | Copy Link
That's what feminism is talking about. THAT'S TOXIC MASCULINITY, we don't need to do that in a feminist world.
I love how you support feminism, thinking that you are shitting on it
[–]denvercaniac 0 points1 point2 points 1 year ago (4 children) | Copy Link
It's been proven women aren't attracted to men who show emotion. Your sick, twisted ideology is what is truly toxic.
[–]Several_Sea7127 0 points1 point2 points 1 year ago (3 children) | Copy Link
What. Who the fuck "proved" that? Give me some sources and then we can talk (・_・;)
[–]denvercaniac 0 points1 point2 points 1 year ago (2 children) | Copy Link
That's the thing with people like you. You're not on this sub to discuss anything or debate anything. You're here to promote your inhuman supremacist movement devoted solely to the betterment of women and with no regard for my gender whatsoever. You aren't here for any positive reason. Get out.
[–]Several_Sea7127 0 points1 point2 points 1 year ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Soooo I ask for sources and you say that people who ask for gender equality are a cult. I just said something about feminism, that is good for men. Anyways, are you going to give me some sources or will you just keep fucking around?
[–]denvercaniac 0 points1 point2 points 1 year ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Feminism has done nothing about infant male circumcision, a barbaric practice. It has done nothing about selective service and the unfair treatment in court against men in divorce cases and child support. This is not a sub to mindlessly bleat on about how your evil movement is actually good. We critique it here, not support it. Get out.
[–]Ghosttalker96 -3 points-2 points-1 points 1 year ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Simple answer: I don't. If I have to cry, I cry. And if it is a mental health issue, I get therapy.
The patriarchy is to blame for these things. And to the men who claim women hate to see men cry or be emotional that is not the case with all women. Leave toxic relationships. Heal yourselves and stop hating women.
[+]Stanzy2 -15 points-14 points-13 points 1 year ago (13 children) | Copy Link
Feminism is about letting men show emotions though
[–]MasterOfChaos6 10 points11 points12 points 1 year ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Lol
[–]Imissyourgirlfriend2 3 points4 points5 points 1 year ago (11 children) | Copy Link
Ha!
[+]Stanzy2 -8 points-7 points-6 points 1 year ago (10 children) | Copy Link
It is about everyone being treated the same, actual modern feminism is also about letting men show emotion.
[–]Rol9x 10 points11 points12 points 1 year ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Because I need a bunch of ignorant crazy harpies to tell me what I should feel and how I should live my life.
[–]Snoo_2853 2 points3 points4 points 1 year ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Then why is it called FEMinism?
[–]Stanzy2 0 points1 point2 points 1 year ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Cause when it started the FEMale gender was extremely discriminated against. The goal of FEMinism is two put the two genders on the same level and remove discrimination. This in the beginning meant pushing women up, and now it is a balancing act.
[–]Snoo_2853 1 point2 points3 points 1 year ago (1 child) | Copy Link
It's not the goal of feminism. The goal of feminism has moved away from the goal of catching women up to men and giving them equal rights. Now it's trying to establish a gynocracy. Your echo chamber isn't honest with you.
[–]Stanzy2 0 points1 point2 points 1 year ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Well now that is a complete misunderstanding, sure, there might be some people who call themselves feminists and want women to be dominant. But the majority want nothibg to do with that, but are sadly dragged into the first group because the first group are really fucking loud.
[–]dependency_injector 2 points3 points4 points 1 year ago (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Imissyourgirlfriend2 5 points6 points7 points 1 year ago (2 children) | Copy Link
No. It's not.
[+]Stanzy2 -7 points-6 points-5 points 1 year ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Then you are sadly not familiar with that part which is fine.
[–]Imissyourgirlfriend2 3 points4 points5 points 1 year ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Sure
[+]Fair-Lie7125 -7 points-6 points-5 points 1 year ago (1 child) | Copy Link
So many of these comments are great examples of why so many of you need to get offline and get some therapy
[+]UnablPossih8acc -35 points-34 points-33 points 1 year ago* (10 children) | Copy Link
deserved
edit: An hour ago, you downvoted me. I poured my heart and soul into writing that comment, and took the risk of revealing my true innermost feelings, only to be viciously attacked and downvoted.I was so excited when I wrote that comment. I thought it was well thought and honest. I thought people would read it, agree or disagree, and move on. But then..you took my happiness away with the click of a button. I was then told I would not be able to post for 9 minutes. Not only was my dignity taken away, but my ability to write another comment was revoked. I was punished for daring to reveal my soul to the world.I am literally shaking right now. I don't know how I will move on or survive this incident. My mind will forever be wracked with the painful torment of wondering: who? why? Will there ever be justice?Some day, I will tell this story to my grandchildren. It will serve as a reminder of just how cruel the world can be. I hope the future generations can build a world that is better than our own, one where nobody has to suffer the extreme pain and torment of being downvoted.In the mean time, it is going to take a lot of therapy and time to recover from this trauma. I might even need to look into adopting a comfort llama to help me get through every day life. Right now all my mind is capable of focusing on are the horrible flashbacks.
also pls stop replying hurtful things to me bc im very sad rn
[–][deleted] 15 points16 points17 points 1 year ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ok misandrist.
[–]Sugared-Peach 8 points9 points10 points 1 year ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Hey, nobody deserves harm. Seems like nobody has any empathy for each anymore.
[–]Rol9x 1 point2 points3 points 1 year ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You do realise a lot of people on social media don't actually see others as people. Because it's hard to realise that we are not real, we are just names on a platform. We could be bots or fake accounts so people can hate us or wish us ill.
[–]Sugared-Peach 0 points1 point2 points 1 year ago (0 children) | Copy Link
No fight against a stranger on the internet is worth it. Could be a bot or fake account like you said. Unless, one views it as an opportunity to develop critical thinking and debate skills.
[–]Yowazzuplol 2 points3 points4 points 1 year ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Why are you trolling...? This is a post about men feeling like they can't/aren't allowed to cry in their lives.. It's not appropriate to troll right now.
[–]UnablPossih8acc 0 points1 point2 points 1 year ago (0 children) | Copy Link
no <3
[–]Zephyr9865 6 points7 points8 points 1 year ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You're disgusting.
Poor is the man whose happiness depends on the actions of another. And why would you like to be happy? That's a cheap and overrated thing. Why don't you try to do something meaningful with your life?
[–]Skirt_Douglas 0 points1 point2 points 1 year ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That’s such a fucking stupid stereotype. Bottom line is we are just not compelled to cry over the vast majority of sad things, and forcing tears doesn’t actually make us feel better.
[–]Alarming_Draw 0 points1 point2 points 1 year ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Answer: We dont have a choice because we live in a world dictated by female moods, whims and hysteria, where we are told we should show more emotions-but only if they are emotions that please women, or we are called misogynists, sexists, and have our lives ruined. We face things called "responsibilities" and "expectations" that you women dont...until recently. Which is also why you women are utterly hysterical lately at realising there are laws that also apply to you that you may not like but have to live with as citizens of a nation.....
[–]StanduAnduDeroo 0 points1 point2 points 1 year ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Almost 30, just 10 more years, please god
[–]Boring-Key777 0 points1 point2 points 1 year ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Why is that a “real man” thing. Why is being mentally ill and keeping it in glorified. It isn’t healthy
[–]Best_Illustrator_137 0 points1 point2 points 1 year ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Society and women constantly saying it’s okay until we show it then they are turned away or see us as weak, has happened to me once, never going back.
[–]seeker_adee-69 0 points1 point2 points 1 year ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Of course we dont cry. (in public) 😂😂
[–]TrashBoiClique 0 points1 point2 points 1 year ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That’s not feminists fault
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