"Who hurt you?"

ijustdontcare74 · 2022-10-04T10:53:31+00:00

Ah one of the standard deflection tactics, meant to put you on the defensive and excuse her bullshit:

You must hate women!
Who hurt you?
Are you gay?
You're not man enough to handle me!
I want a man not a boy.
You just picked the wrong type of woman.
All men are pigs
All men are abusers

There are many variations on the above themes, but they all have the aim of her not having to accept responsibility for her own failings. For example, you point out that she always picks ass-holes, thus always gets pumped/dumped and hurt...but rather than take some introspection and admit she's the one that causes the problem and take some responsibility for the outcome, she goes on the attack and uses one of the aforementioned shaming tactics. This is standard operating mode for women, especially feminists...who NEVER accept they're in the wrong.

LordranKing · 2022-10-04T12:32:26+00:00

It’s shaming language when there’s no solid reason to disagree with you. Just laugh it off

Reddit1984Censorship · 2022-10-04T12:45:30+00:00

Lately? Thats the eternal gaslight 101 :) I literally laugh when i hear that at this point

Ok_Razzmatazz_1751 · 2022-10-04T20:06:04+00:00

Shaming language ,name calling is done from both sides. See it everytime.

_name_of_the_user_ · 2022-10-04T13:59:27+00:00

Just in the last few days here on reddit I've been accused of being an incel and accused of having ED, both as shaming tactics because the other person was losing the argument.

BigBoi2626 · 2022-10-04T15:48:44+00:00

Don't forget that when a woman defends men it's instantly "Did they pick you yet". Shit makes me think that maybe the human race should get factory reset.

ReasonableCost5934 · 2022-10-04T20:42:00+00:00

I have a preference for big women. I never hear this stuff. 🤣

Title	"Who hurt you?"
Author	BuilderOutrageous322
Upvotes	26
Comments	19
Date	October 4, 2022 4:46 AM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/AntiFeminists
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