When you match with a girl who is a 6-7/10 with a personality of 9/10 and you're a 8.5-9/10 Chad then;

Try to write down how someone with a great loving personality would treat another person and then try to aim to text at that level. You might not have as much sexual experience as someone of your age. Maybe after you have texted for 2 - 3 days she can help you learn what a real girl likes from a man.

I'm sure you don't want these superficial dumb girls in your life that Chad's or Brad's hooks up with as your girlfriend 5 years from now. So use this platform to learn.

You can learn from it and it will motivate you to work on yourself and your underdeveloped social skills.