I've been part of this community since early 2019 when I was going through my divorce.

I don't expect you to know my backstory; it's pretty long.

But ill try to make a long story short.

I had an extremely nasty divorce.

My ex worked in the family court system for 10 years and knew every angle how to f me over.

She had multiple affairs and made false accusations; I spent two days in jail for those, 18 months of court outside of divorce court for the false accusations, false OP's, and charges were eventually thrown out (of course, after all the damage had been done), ex-wife cleaned out the house and took everything while including the dog, while she had me locked up for those 2 days. The dog mysteriously ends up paralyzed under her care, and he dies (He was only 5).

She brainwashed my youngest daughter, who was 100% a daddy's girl.

I attempted suicide, was on life support, and was hospitalized for a month.

My oldest daughter, however, saw through all the bullshit, and once she moved out realized what a narcissistic manipulator her mother was. My daughter got married in October 2020, and that was the last time she communicated with her mother, mainly because her mother wanted to bring the guy she cheated on me with to her wedding, my daughter said no, so my ex stayed at her daughter's wedding about 30 minutes and left to go be with him. (Fun fact: Ex cheats on him 2 months later, and he dumps her)

Fast forward to November of 2022, my daughter, whose been married for 2+ years and hasn't even exchanged a text message with her mom since the wedding, tells me I am going to be a grandpa. My ex is likely going to find out 2nd hand on Facebook (my daughter and son-in-law have her blocked) that she is going to be a grandmother. My daughter has also said she will not be allowed at the hospital when the baby is born and never wants her mother near her child ever.