Today is the day I found in my wife's notes from her lawyer 'June 9th - earlier rather than later.' We had a good conversation after that, and she wanted time to consider what we discussed. But the date still stands out in my head as a date of some significance. She won't talk to me about it. Yesterday when she got back from a friends house, I asked her how her day was and she said it was pretty shitty, but she didn't want to talk about it. I asked if it was something I did and she said no. She was crying at the top of the stairs later that night and I told her I'm here if she wants to talk about it. I haven't seen this woman cry more than 10 times in 17 years. Hard for me to not connect it to whatever today is. She has a trip to see her parents for 3 weeks later this month with our son, when I had asked her Sunday if everything was on hold until she got back I got the worst answer of 'I don't really know.' So i'm anxious every single day wondering if today is the day. I have an appointment with an attorney, but there's not a lot to talk about until I see what she comes up with. Just having a hard time getting through work every day wondering. It's been 3 months and so far all I know is she's met with her lawyer a few times, have yet to see any paperwork