I'm very likely getting a divorce and my wife has made it clear that she will not allow me to buy out her share of our home, even if it means losing money. We closed on the house in March this year and the market has gone down, so it's unlikely we could sell for more than we paid, but if she'd let me buy her out she'd stand to get around $55k minimum, which if I stretch myself I could manage without remortgaging. 

And she has no attachment to it but I do. I am the sole breadwinner and have invested a huge amount of time and money in the home, doing all the design and planning myself along with nearly all the work.

The relationship is also abusive, if that makes a difference. One occasion even requiring me getting my forehead glued back together at the hospital. Plenty of other abuse as well like smashing a door down or throwing hot coffee at me in the car, some of which I have evidence for. Not to mention the emotional abuse. 

I want out at this point, but if we sell the house I'll be stuck. Stuck without the home that I've put everything into over the past year and without the ability to find another home that I could afford right now considering the rates. She will move back to her home country, so it doesn't matter to her. But for me, it would destroy everything I've worked for over the past 10 years.... 

What can I do?