Ok someone tell me I’m not nuts. Separated 8 months filed for divorce 2 months ago. STBXW is using alienation tactics to keep my kids at arms reach. A few weeks ago she says she is not sending Christmas cards to my family and I’m on my own. I said fine. I wasn’t even going to send cards, but one day I was feeling good and sent a bunch of cards to my extended family and some friends. I wanted people to have my new address. A simple card, wrote Merry Christmas and signed my name and my kids names. I know my ex was sending a picture card with her name and my two teenagers names. So one of our family friends wives texted my ex to tell her she got my card and didn’t know we were getting divorced. We sold the family home 4 months ago. So my ex rips into me when I came over to pick up my son to goto breakfast on the weekend. I guess I’m not allowed to send cards because people will find out and some of my sons friends at school might ask him about his parents. She ripped into me, make my son cry etc. I just walked out. Anyone have to deal with a narcissist, CO dependent crazy person? I said I can sent cards and shouldn’t need to ask my kids permission to add their names, since she did the exact same thing. Am I crazy?