Just a friendly reminder to enjoy the small wins. Hang in there. The small unexpected wins will appear slowly, when you are ready. Just hang in there.

September 2017. I confronted my ex wife about her affair. For the next year, she had social services, police and child protection all looked into her claims of abuse. Nothing was found, as there wasn't any abuse from me.

October 2018. We had our days in court. No settlement.

November 2018. We got a divorce decree.

My ex-wife disagreed with the court order and refused to follow it. Specifically, the parenting schedule.

June 2019. I received approval for a six month review by the court. We went to court. The judge wasn't buying the excuses by my ex-wife for not following the order. My ex-wife said that she was confused and was a victim (again without any proof).

I had a good feeling when the judge said that the judge specifically set the parenting schedule as such to compensate me for the holidays.

Yeah, I cried in court.

Anyways, hang in there. Go with your gut. Enjoy the small wins. Think about the long term.

P.S. My ex-wife disagrees again with the court agreement from the six month review. We are going back to court next week and I'm excited 😁.