I live with my wife and kids. We mutually can’t stand each other. I want out. I am willing to handle things with a level head but her emotion is uncontrollable and to hand my narcissist wife separation papers and take control of my future will set her ablaze. Her explosion may permanently traumatize the kids which id like to avoid. I also don’t want to walk away from the house that I have mostly paid for since she has refused to work. She will likely go the TRO route and play the victim card. What is the best way to prepare for this and serve her papers. Remember, we live in the same house and affording a second one is impossible unless she gets a job.