Fucked up in my head now

SnooStories5744 · 2022-03-25T07:39:00+00:00

I’m sorry bro. Get some space and cool down before you do anything else. Take photos of the journal and think through what you are going to say or do. Don’t beat the shit out of the guy. You can contact a lawyer and educate yourself on the costs, process and about your specific situation. Keep your head up, she’s not worth it.

lostcanuck007 · 2022-03-25T10:49:12+00:00

photos, evidence, DO NOT CONFRONT ANYONE. talk to a lawyer. get your plan of attack ready, empty accounts, move things, get debt/ diagnosis/lower paying job and the whole shebang. Deliver the news on camera with a witness by your side. plan this out. take our revenge. sith voice

anonuser637373 · 2022-03-25T07:47:42+00:00

What's your plan? DH/DW usually is an internet abbreviation for "Dear Husband/Wife." But, she's clearly playing you out.

Objective_Problem_90 · 2022-03-25T10:28:34+00:00

You are angry and understandable at this point. But you must keep a cool head. Take pics of said diary and get yourself a lawyer. Yes, she is a cold hearted witch and it is over and you need to protect your interests at this point. I'm sorry that you've had to deal with this. Once things go south, it's almost always men who suffer the worst.

anonuser637373 · 2022-03-25T20:13:29+00:00

been digging into her journals. it's been going on for 2 years and at one point she might have been pregnant.. i got a rash on my dick at one point and I have never had those kind of issues.. she made me believe it was something latent in my body that had popped up ... i wanna tell me kids who their mom truly is.. it is such a fucking betrayal ...been working my ass off to support this family for 18 years ...i am so devastated

UntilYouKnowMe · 2022-03-25T12:51:43+00:00

Feel for you, bro. All of the other advice here is solid, just also make sure your daughter isn’t in the middle. Obviously, you can’t control your stbxw, but don’t let DD (true acronym) hear you speak about ex.

sicrm · 2022-03-25T12:54:21+00:00

start with DNA, STD tests, and talk to a lawyer to start working on a exit plan.

when you do file, don’t leave the house no matter what she says, it could put you on the hook for abandonment.

ask your lawyer what steps you can take to protect yourself while you’re there and make an area of the house your fortress.

WartimeDad · 2022-03-25T16:33:17+00:00

Record every conversation and stay calm. Photograph that journal. Next comes her claims of domestic violence or abuse. She got the memo going around that is telling her she won’t be held accountable if she says you’re abusive.

Funny_Wolverine_9 · 2022-03-25T17:31:27+00:00

Hey bro,

You need to take pictures and back those pictures up. DO NOT tell her you know. Gather your evidence and file for divorce before she pulls one on you. It's over bro.

https://forum.mensdivorce.com/viewtopic.php?t=13374

Join the club.

Xan-Diesel · 2022-03-25T20:20:24+00:00

I'm so sorry, man. This is going to be a long and painful ride. Try to remember: you deserve better. Be good to yourself. It'll get worse before it gets better. Hang in there! We'll see you on the other side.

playerknowmore · 2022-03-25T21:47:06+00:00

DH also could be Devoted Husband. In her mind being faithful may be seen as a weakness.

pegleg_legal · 2022-03-28T04:32:36+00:00

Keep this information. Prepare yourself legally and then ambush her. Guilt her into a good settlement. You may be mad as a hornet but you can use this to your advantage.

Title	Fucked up in my head now
Author	anonuser637373
Upvotes	26
Comments	35
Date	March 25, 2022 7:17 AM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/Divorce_Men
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