I really miss who she was before I found out who she really was.

nomoreshoppingsprees · 2021-09-20T05:36:20+00:00

You are missing someone that exists only in your imagination.

Striking-Trainer8148 · 2021-09-20T05:43:25+00:00

You were wrong about who she was.

She showed you the truth. You just need to accept that.

Your grief will come to a close much sooner once you realize you were just wrong. And that’s ok.

dwoodruf · 2021-09-20T12:59:58+00:00

I really miss who I was before I found out who she really was.

Slowplay23 · 2021-09-20T06:38:29+00:00

Yes, I fell in love with a woman, then she changed.

dudefromyork · 2021-09-20T09:58:56+00:00

This is an important realisation mate. And takes some proper self reflection to work out.

It will help you in the future though. Nobody’s perfect and you’re going to be able to know what you do and don’t want to put up with in your future.

hombredelgato · 2021-09-21T00:35:27+00:00

You really miss who you thought she was before you found out the truth…

LogansDaddy96 · 2021-09-20T20:41:36+00:00

I so feel this. My wife and I have been together for 8 years, since we were 16. I was so damn sure I knew her. I hope we can find someone to trust again.

dukecharming1975 · 2021-09-20T12:55:28+00:00

Ditto on that one, broseph

RStonePT · 2021-09-20T17:49:04+00:00

Don't go emo, it's a divorce, not the end of the world.

Title	I really miss who she was before I found out who she really was.
Author	SmartHomeDumbGuy
Upvotes	39
Comments	15
Date	September 20, 2021 5:23 AM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/Divorce_Men
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