Separated for 21 months. Divorced for 7 (long story) And I want everyone to know that I now feel I can 100% be happy in this life without her. I have no doubt about that.Alone...not so much, but at least I know I can be without her. And please understand, like most of you I was absolutely crushed when she left. I cried for months. I had been terribly suicidal. I thought I would never experience happiness again. I thought then (and honestly still kind of do) that I couldn't get someone as attractive. And yet...I know I can have a happy life without her. I truly believe that. Hang in there brothers!