I have 3 boys 11,9, and 5. After divorcing I moved about 45 minutes away closer to the hospital where I work. We have a pretty standard custody set up. I have every other weekend, certain days a week and rotating holidays. Due to my EMS schedule I work 24 on and 48 off, making every other weekend almost impossible. My lawyer and I wrote up a Saturday-Sunday schedule and a Friday-Saturday where we meet at a designated area to drop off/ pick up the children. Since they are back in school, my ex has insisted that I drive all the way to her parents house to pick up the boys since they get off the bus there. My time with the boys technically starts after they get out of school but, our divorce papers state the we meet at the designated place from exchange. I have been asking her to please exchange there but she refuses. I am afraid of what she will do and I will not get to see my boys if I do not pick them up at her parents house. I want to stand my ground on this because gas has become expensive lately. This is a big issue because she fights me tooth and nail on it. I need some advice.