She made a series of terrible legal decisions and basically ruined her chances at getting primary custody and child support before even filing. Now, after our first hearing, she didn't get child support, maintenance, or legal fees. We have 50/50 custody. She is asking me to agree to mediation instead now and she only wants 50/50 custody and assets. Obviously she is just hoping a new "judge" will side with her and give her what she wants. 50/50 isn't possible. She moved three hours away and the kids can't be in two schools. One of us will get primary custody, and all signs are pointing to me. She also has no money and thought I'd have to reimburse her parents for lawyer fees, which I don't.

She can't decide to end the divorce and make me refile, can she? Most things I have read online only mention if both parties agree to end the divorce. I initially didn't want it, but now I do. Can she cancel it without my consent?