Word of advice......if you are ahead of the divorce curve one thing can't be stressed enough.

GET ALL THE PAPERWORK and important documents. Home\Car Titles, Lien Release forms, Birth Certificates\Social Security Cards.....anything important that she WILL get and use as an obstacle when you're going through everything.

It's just one less thing to have to communicate with her about and worry with.

My EX is a narcissist and very sneaky and shady. I got some docs but she got others.

Anything you can think of that is of importance or value!