I'm needing to retrieve some personal items (namely golf clubs, bow), stbxw still lives there with children (she does not have exclusive use of marital home) and is prohibiting me from getting my items. We've been seperated for 6 months and I'm in a small apartment and wasn't able to store much, but I've since got a storage unit and was hoping to be able to get my personal belongings now.

What recourse do I have? I've been exceedingly amicable, but shes not responsive.